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    ...all the recent ones. Even the ones that don't even count as an ex, like brief stints.

    Anyone been in the position where someone just messed so much with you, that you can't even think straight? I had deleted her and she was out of my life for good, then the came back like a bad penny, rolling back. I picked her up and put her in my back pocket, just there, never had the intentio


    ...**** this
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    (Original post by Et Tu, Brute?)
    ...all the recent ones. Even the ones that don't even count as an ex, like brief stints.

    Anyone been in the position where someone just messed so much with you, that you can't even think straight? I had deleted her and she was out of my life for good, then the came back like a bad penny, rolling back. I picked her up and put her in my back pocket, just there, never had the intentio


    ...**** this
    ...........and you wonder why relationships with you don't work?
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    (Original post by Et Tu, Brute?)
    ...all the recent ones. Even the ones that don't even count as an ex, like brief stints.

    Anyone been in the position where someone just messed so much with you, that you can't even think straight? I had deleted her and she was out of my life for good, then the came back like a bad penny, rolling back. I picked her up and put her in my back pocket, just there, never had the intentio


    ...**** this
    Yes, I think everyone has something like this at some point. I also message exes when drunk, but that's only when I feel vulnerable. The problem isn't getting drunk, but feeling insecure/unlovable. This has nothing to do with your exes - entirely to do with your own perception of yourself and your life. If you see it this way, you know it's under your control to build better habits, physically and mentally, to get you on the right way to self-confidence and not feeling the need to reach out to unreachable people who will just hurt you over and over again. (trust me, personal experience)
 
 
 
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