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    I meet this gorgeous woman at a takeway about a week ago. I told her about the problems i had with my new job . A week in and i came into the restaurant and she turned to me and said " Oh there you are , i have been asking as i didnt see you". I explained to her that i was about to be fired before the weekend . Then i asked if she had FB. She did not , but then gave me her number and said " she does not want it to be the last time she would see me ". That evening , i was fired and sent a text to her to confirm it and she never replied .. What is the point of giving me her number only to ingore it?? why do i get that with women?..This is the second time this has happened to me
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    She's probably busy so be a little patient.
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    She's probably busy so be a little patient.
    Iv deleted her number now.. it only takes a milisecond to send a text, not a few hours
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    Iv deleted her number now.. it only takes a milisecond to send a text, not a few hours
    Seriously?? People have lives you know... they have work, her phone could've been off.. cos her charger broke or I DONT KNOW. I think you should stop being so impatient and think "why would she say that she doesn't want it to be the last time she sees me if she's just going to not respond for A COUPLE OF HOURS... hmm maybe there's a reason"
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    Seriously?? People have lives you know... they have work, her phone could've been off.. cos her charger broke or I DONT KNOW. I think you should stop being so impatient and think "why would she say that she doesn't want it to be the last time she sees me if she's just going to not respond for A COUPLE OF HOURS... hmm maybe there's a reason"
    Hmm, you have a point..Just like her... if she didnt have kids, i will have liked to have a relationship with her
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    Hmm, you have a point..Just like her... if she didnt have kids, i will have liked to have a relationship with her
    Her having kids shouldn't be a problem.
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    Her having kids shouldn't be a problem.
    To me it does a huge amount. I am not into bisexual women and their baggages
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    To me it does a huge amount. I am not into bisexual women and their baggages
    Oh she's bisexual now? You're not interested in her so yeah you don't have to get into a relationship with her but you could just have a friendly talk with her.
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    Oh she's bisexual now? You're not interested in her so yeah you don't have to get into a relationship with her but you could just have a friendly talk with her.
    Thanks Emerald.. reason why i raised this topic because it constantly happens to me from various people i meet, they OFFER to give me their number and when i text , they dont respond, so i am like, Whats the point
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    Thanks Emerald.. reason why i raised this topic because it constantly happens to me from various people i meet, they OFFER to give me their number and when i text , they dont respond, so i am like, Whats the point
    No worries! Yeah don't let a couple of experiences in the past stop you from having a potentially great relationship friendwise or the other way.
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    No worries! Yeah don't let a couple of experiences in the past stop you from having a potentially great relationship friendwise or the other way.
    ... i just see it as we was not suppose to be friends..dunno...
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    I meet this gorgeous woman at a takeway about a week ago. I told her about the problems i had with my new job . A week in and i came into the restaurant and she turned to me and said " Oh there you are , i have been asking as i didnt see you". I explained to her that i was about to be fired before the weekend . Then i asked if she had FB. She did not , but then gave me her number and said " she does not want it to be the last time she would see me ". That evening , i was fired and sent a text to her to confirm it and she never replied .. What is the point of giving me her number only to ingore it?? why do i get that with women?..This is the second time this has happened to me
    you should have called dude
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    ... i just see it as we was not suppose to be friends..dunno...
    listen if you don't want to be friends with her.. you don't have to. but in future, you should be more patient and consider the reasons why she is not responding to your text and that could be she is busy. she is a mother , after all..
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    (Original post by New- Emperor)
    you should have called dude
    A text is close too.. besides i dont have enough credit to be calling her
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    listen if you don't want to be friends with her.. you don't have to. but in future, you should be more patient and consider the reasons why she is not responding to your text and that could be she is busy. she is a mother , after all..
    Which will be a huge problem if i was going to get into things , hence why i dont want women with baggages,,but hey like you said ..i just need to move on now
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    (Original post by charmaine45th)
    Which will be a huge problem if i was going to get into things , hence why i dont want women with baggages,,but hey like you said ..i just need to move on now
    Yeah you should just move on, good luck tho
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    Yeah you should just move on, good luck tho
    thx hon
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    Maybe she got cold feet after thinking a little more about you not being able to hold down a job. :P
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    (Original post by loooopppyyy)
    Maybe she got cold feet after thinking a little more about you not being able to hold down a job. :P
    good one... Dork!... i thought this was a troll free forum..maybe not
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    Her having kids shouldn't be a problem.
    It kind of it a problem. I wouldn't want to get in a relationship with someone who hasn't kids
 
 
 
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