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    So I'm just really worried about it hurting and I feel like it will because I'm really tight I can bearly get two fingers down there so I have no clue how a **** is gonna fit in there. Is there anyway you can stretch it out without pain or any tips to help make it less painful I mean I'm ready for sex just dont want it to hurt anymore than it has to please leave tips thank you
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    So I'm just really worried about it hurting and I feel like it will because I'm really tight I can bearly get two fingers down there so I have no clue how a **** is gonna fit in there. Is there anyway you can stretch it out without pain or any tips to help make it less painful I mean I'm ready for sex just dont want it to hurt anymore than it has to please leave tips thank you
    A babies head is meant to be able to come out of there, so size shouldnt be an issue.

    Pain may be, so you need info [ I read the articles, so no need for me to retype]on how to deal with any initial pain and lots of other information about first time intercourse. Dont worry its perfectly natural and once you understand whats happening and why then you will worry a lot less..

    These links explain more and offer advice on how to deal with it.

    http://www.nhs.uk/chq/pages/3047.aspx?categoryid=118

    http://www.scarleteen.com/article/se...ntercourse_101

    http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/sex-hurts
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    If you're this nervous. why are you considering doing it?

    As they've said, your vagina will be able to stretch to pass a baby's head through it, and penises tend to be much, much narrower than that. But, cruelly, being nervous makes it hard to relax the muscles and having something trying to get in when your muscles are tense can be uncomfortable for both of you.

    It's going to help if you are in charge of what's going in, how deep and how fast. It may also take a while to get used to one finger, two, three, but once you are, having a penis inside should not be too hard. If you're experimenting on your own, a warm bath can be a very relaxing place to do it.
 
 
 
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