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    I'm a guy who matched with this girl on tinder about two weeks ago and straight away we really hit it off. We were so similar and she was a little intense at first but I enjoyed our convos so much. She was saying that she was so committed in relationships and loyal and deleted tinder and was only chatting to me. She even told her friends about me and was having' dreams' about me too. We were speaking so much during the day. She's triple whatsapping me at times and it was going so well, deceptively well.

    We coordinate to meet, the date is at a comedy club and so it's fairly loud but I thought we hit it off. She even kissed me on the cheek and then text saying she'd got home. So, based on the fact we were so chatty before, I left nearly the whole day before dropping a casual conversation starter the following evening. I received no reply. She'd been active on Whatsapp though. I then thought she may have been annoyed at how long it took to message her, so I messaged her again late that night just apologising for the delay but wishing her a good evening. I received no reply. I then left it for 3 more days. She still hasn't read my whatsapp but has been active.

    By this point, I understand that maybe something went wrong with our date. So this time I text her just saying I really enjoyed her company and would love to see her again and if I could properly take her out for dinner. She has been active on whatsapp but hasn't replied since. She was always on her phone when we were chatting.

    After messaging all this time I seriously didn't think she'd completely cut me off without a reason. What should I do? I've really lost me head.
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    A comedy club? Did you guys manage to talk at all or were you just watching a live act? For me, that's just like having a first date watching a movie, you can't talk to get to know each other more.

    Unfortunately, ghosting happens a lot from online dating. If she was interested she would have at least messaged you that night or the next day saying that she enjoyed it.

    Not a lot you can do, just let her go to you now. Nothing stopping you from meeting with other girls though.
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