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    How is this done? It's difficult enough finding a relationship let alone one who is into the same stuff as you..
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    What fetish?
    Depending on how mainstream it is, I wouldn't say it's too tough...
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    There must be websites for every fetish. Have you googled it?


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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    There must be websites for every fetish. Have you googled it?


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    Online dating is a nightmare enough for men, let alone ones for specific fetishes. On a lot of these websites people are quite pretentious.
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    trial and error
    you're probably better off building a relationship so you can admit to it later once you feel comfortable trusting them
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    (Original post by cloudyeyes)
    trial and error
    you're probably better off building a relationship so you can admit to it later once you feel comfortable trusting them
    Going into my final year at uni and so far I've had very little success with girls at all at uni. I've also tried tinder, no results from nights out either.
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    Going into my final year at uni and so far I've had very little success with girls at all at uni. I've also tried tinder, no results from nights out either.
    if you have no success with girls in the first place how do you expect to find one with the same fetish???lmao
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    (Original post by cloudyeyes)
    if you have no success with girls in the first place how do you expect to find one with the same fetish???lmao
    Yeha that's a problem too. I take care of myself and I work out too, I'm not awkward at all. I make plenty of friends but beyond that, nothing.
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    Yeha that's a problem too. I take care of myself and I work out too, I'm not awkward at all. I make plenty of friends but beyond that, nothing.
    all you can do is keep trying. gl
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    Yeha that's a problem too. I take care of myself and I work out too, I'm not awkward at all. I make plenty of friends but beyond that, nothing.
    What fetish is it?
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    What fetish is it?
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    What fetish?
    Depending on how mainstream it is, I wouldn't say it's too tough...
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    I have accounts on a few fetish websites and can tell you the following if it helps, I'm guessing you're a straight male?

    "Submissive" women are EXTREMELY common
    "Dominant" women are very rare

    "Dominant" men are common (unless you're gay, then they're rare)
    "Submissive" men are fairly common but not as much (unless you're gay, then they're common)
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    (Original post by lordofbutthurt)
    I have accounts on a few fetish websites and can tell you the following if it helps, I'm guessing you're a straight male?

    "Submissive" women are EXTREMELY common
    "Dominant" women are very rare

    "Dominant" men are common (unless you're gay, then they're rare)
    "Submissive" men are fairly common but not as much (unless you're gay, then they're common)
    Yeah, I am.

    I've tried Fetlife before but just found everyone to be extremely pretentious. Not to mention I am a uni student, many are adults with tons of experience too.
 
 
 
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