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cant stop crying

somtimes i get soo depressed and cant stop crying over things my boyfriend does.like one time we agreed that we were gonna have a weekend together but he left me that day to go to a rave. i cried all night and i end up crying on the bus or in public places cause i cant control my emotions. if only he knew how much his hurting me but when i tell him he just says oh stop overacting. am i depressed or wot.

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Reply 1

its possible you are. try seeing your gp.
but if its only ever him that makes you cry is it worth staying with him?

Reply 2

Well to be honest, it was quite mean of him promising to see you then just buggering off to a rave, I would question just how much he values the relationship. At least he could have been honest and said "i'm going out tonight, I can't see you"

Reply 3

aww my boyfriend goes to judo alllll the time, on my weekends. men are gay!

Reply 4

you sound like your lovesick, and a very sensitive soul, i can't believe he left you to go to a rave, didn't he even invite you??

Reply 5

he left you...to go to a rave? really? :|

Reply 6

Anonymous
somtimes i get soo depressed and cant stop crying over things my boyfriend does.like one time we agreed that we were gonna have a weekend together but he left me that day to go to a rave. i cried all night and i end up crying on the bus or in public places cause i cant control my emotions. if only he knew how much his hurting me but when i tell him he just says oh stop overacting. am i depressed or wot.



well i'd say its normal for u to get upset for wat ur bf did to u bt i hav CRYING PROBLEMS as well. the day b4, i was soooooooooooooooo depressed for no reason n i started crying n let everyfing out. n the next morning i felt relly beta. i like to fink as a girly way of ..................... dunno really

Reply 7

Anonymous
well i'd say its normal for u to get upset for wat ur bf did to u bt i hav CRYING PROBLEMS as well. the day b4, i was soooooooooooooooo depressed for no reason n i started crying n let everyfing out. n the next morning i felt relly beta. i like to fink as a girly way of ..................... dunno really


Please re-write that in proper english, because I do not understand text speak.

Reply 8

Well why don't you tell him how much it's hurting you? If he's your boyfriend he should know how his actions affect you. And if he doesn't respond well to that- you need to consider if you still wanna be with him. Also, you need to figure out who the problem lies with- i.e, are you emotional about everything? If so you gota make sure you're with someone who doesnt take advantage of that, and who can handle that. Or, are you normally OK, is it him that makes you cry, and if so, why him? Because he's not good for you, or because you feel too much for him? ... you gota sit and talk to him about him, he and you have to work together, that's what relationships are about, right.

Reply 9

Stressed Chick
Well why don't you tell him how much it's hurting you? If he's your boyfriend he should know how his actions affect you. And if he doesn't respond well to that- you need to consider if you still wanna be with him. Also, you need to figure out who the problem lies with- i.e, are you emotional about everything? If so you gota make sure you're with someone who doesnt take advantage of that, and who can handle that. Or, are you normally OK, is it him that makes you cry, and if so, why him? Because he's not good for you, or because you feel too much for him? ... you gota sit and talk to him about him, he and you have to work together, that's what relationships are about, right.


thanks you soo much for your advice i think i a quiet a emotional person, but i dont think he cares how he affects me i think i need to get rid

Reply 10

i thought about it its him that is making me cry most of the time

Reply 11

If it is him thats making you cry all the time he's not worth it! i know it's hard but i think you need to get rid of him. he obviously doesnt care about your feelings if he goes to a rave on your weekend. you shouldnt be with someone if they make you down. feel better soon :smile:

Reply 12

the guy is a jerk, you dont deserve to be treated like that.
And in time you'll learn to control 'public' crying.

Reply 13

Just get rid of him. Men are awful. We must show them who is the boss.

Reply 14

He's not worth the trouble love.

I hate b******s like that, they mess around with your head, and leave you more disorientated than ever. Horrible position to be in, but I guess I'll never get into another foolish relationship.

Reply 15

Anonymous
somtimes i get soo depressed and cant stop crying over things my boyfriend does.am i depressed or wot.


You might quite easily be depressed
You should see your GP and get help.
Depression is not pleasnant.

Reply 16

He lacks any respect for you whatsoever, but you'll remain with him out of desperation/perceived necessity (as he is, of course, well aware) because you happen to be emotionally unstable and devoid of all self-esteem.

Oh, well.

Reply 17

this is a situation where you must tell yourself, will he be there for you when your in trouble?, at old age?, IF say you want/have a baby with him then would he be a good father?

and you have to realise that does he deserve someone like you because he may be meeting other girls. but see your GP to clear your mind and then act.

hope everything goes well for you.

Reply 18

You're not the only one; as when I start crying, I can never stop either.

Reply 19

BigCheese
this is a situation where you must tell yourself, will he be there for you when your in trouble?, at old age?, IF say you want/have a baby with him then would he be a good father?

and you have to realise that does he deserve someone like you because he may be meeting other girls. but see your GP to clear your mind and then act.

hope everything goes well for you.

They're not about to get married now are they?


Profesh
He lacks any respect for you whatsoever, but you'll remain with him out of desperation/perceived necessity (as he is, of course, well aware) because you happen to be emotionally unstable and devoid of all self-esteem.

Oh, well.


how right you are