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    Back when I was 17... I dated this girl for 4-5 months back at my old college. She dumped me because I was too 'caring and clingy' and because I moved to a new college. I hated my new college because it was so weird and different so I really struggled with getting over my ex due to loneliness, so I used to message her a lot about how I missed/cared for her and begged her to meet up with me and stuff.


    Bare in mind, my ex and I we once had an argument because I suspected she still had feelings for her other ex because they had a deep meaningful conversation without telling me. So, a year ago, I met up with my ex and during that meet up I found out she was hooking up with the ex I suspected she had feelings for. I also asked her during that meet up if she liked me and she said no. I then blocked her and kicked her out of my life at that point.

    So then like after a year, she told me she missed me a lot, and thought about me so much and wish she chased after me all along??? Thing is though, during that whole year she was with her previous ex but then this previous ex cheated on her e.t.c e.t.c

    Idk how to feel about it really. I always feel 2ND best to this ex of hers. I don't understand how she could possibly say she missed me for a year when I confronted her about liking me and she lied?

    Idk THOUGHTS? Im 19 now
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    Lol omg you need to move on from this
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    Lol omg you need to move on from this
    She went out with this guy from when she was like 14
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Back when I was 17... I dated this girl for 4-5 months back at my old college. She dumped me because I was too 'caring and clingy' and because I moved to a new college. I hated my new college because it was so weird and different so I really struggled with getting over my ex due to loneliness, so I used to message her a lot about how I missed/cared for her and begged her to meet up with me and stuff.


    Bare in mind, my ex and I we once had an argument because I suspected she still had feelings for her other ex because they had a deep meaningful conversation without telling me. So, a year ago, I met up with my ex and during that meet up I found out she was hooking up with the ex I suspected she had feelings for. I also asked her during that meet up if she liked me and she said no. I then blocked her and kicked her out of my life at that point.

    So then like after a year, she told me she missed me a lot, and thought about me so much and wish she chased after me all along??? Thing is though, during that whole year she was with her previous ex but then this previous ex cheated on her e.t.c e.t.c

    Idk how to feel about it really. I always feel 2ND best to this ex of hers. I don't understand how she could possibly say she missed me for a year when I confronted her about liking me and she lied?

    Idk THOUGHTS? Im 19 now
    Don't kid yourself. You're her second choice and the only reason she "misses" you is that her current lover gave her the sack and you have a history of being desperate. That's how you get treated when girls know you have no options. Cut her out of your life indefinitely, invest in yourself while simultaneously testing different waters, and strive for abundance in future.
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    Mhm.....I get you, I reallly get you. But I'll probably drop her when I go to uni but for now Ill just use her for sex 😂👌🏻
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    Mhm.....I get you, I reallly get you. But I'll probably drop her when I go to uni but for now Ill just use her for sex 😂👌🏻
    WTF?
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    👀 Just low key revenge innit
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Mhm.....I get you, I reallly get you. But I'll probably drop her when I go to uni but for now Ill just use her for sex 😂👌🏻
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