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    We are both 18 and have been together almost 2 years and we both live with our parents. He comes over to mine multiple times a week but I've only ever been to his 3 times when his parents are away. I tell him it's awkward that he's met my parents and is comfortable in my house when I've never met his and feel like I'm not welcome. He tells me there is nothing to do at his house otherwise he would invite me. I am uncertain as to how to handle the situation as we have already discussed this and he's seemingly ignored my concerns.
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    May not enjoy his home environment and is not telling you about it?
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    (Original post by SarahLewis188)
    We are both 18 and have been together almost 2 years and we both live with our parents. He comes over to mine multiple times a week but I've only ever been to his 3 times when his parents are away. I tell him it's awkward that he's met my parents and is comfortable in my house when I've never met his and feel like I'm not welcome. He tells me there is nothing to do at his house otherwise he would invite me. I am uncertain as to how to handle the situation as we have already discussed this and he's seemingly ignored my concerns.
    Could be anything from, feels embarrassed about his home? Doesnt feel comfortable there?

    the only way to know is to ask him really
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    (Original post by SarahLewis188)
    We are both 18 and have been together almost 2 years and we both live with our parents. He comes over to mine multiple times a week but I've only ever been to his 3 times when his parents are away. I tell him it's awkward that he's met my parents and is comfortable in my house when I've never met his and feel like I'm not welcome. He tells me there is nothing to do at his house otherwise he would invite me. I am uncertain as to how to handle the situation as we have already discussed this and he's seemingly ignored my concerns.
    Do his parents know about you? It seems unusual that you've only been to his when parents weren't there ...
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    (Original post by Muttley79)
    Do his parents know about you? It seems unusual that you've only been to his when parents weren't there ...
    Yeah, he talks about me when he's on the phone to them and calls me his girlfriend Sarah.
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    (Original post by SarahLewis188)
    Yeah, he talks about me when he's on the phone to them and calls me his girlfriend Sarah.
    Perhaps he is just more comfortable at yours?
 
 
 
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