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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Rejection? :lol:
    That's just your response, I'm more curious as to what sin it would constitute and what the suitable punishment would be for it
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    Can't lie, I have the same problem ://///
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    Can't shag, can't ****.

    Genuinely feel sorry Muslims who live by that.

    It can't be healthy to have no sexual release whatsoever.
    I don't know how girls work but for men there is something called wet dreams.
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    (Original post by .-.-.-.-.)
    I don't know how girls work but for men there is something called wet dreams.
    Wet dreams are not enough.
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    (Original post by .-.-.-.-.)
    I don't know how girls work but for men there is something called wet dreams.
    Girls have them as well. More a symptom of the frustration than a strategy for dealing with it though.
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    Wet dreams are not enough.
    (Original post by BigYoSpeck)
    Girls have them as well. More a symptom of the frustration than a strategy for dealing with it though.

    It is still a natural release.

    I know it doesn't get rid of the frustration, in order to minimise the frustration and make it very tolerable read my initial post.
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    Kissing and Cuddling is sexual? In what world???
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    (Original post by Nathan Scott)
    Kissing and Cuddling is sexual? In what world???
    This one?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's not permissible!
    IIRC it is in Islam if you're at risk of acting on your urges in a worse way.

    There's nothing wrong with masturbation anyway. It relieves stress, helps build confidence (if done in moderation) and gives you a means by which to learn about your sexuality for when you start having sex with a partner - because, contrary to popular belief, women deserve a good time in bed too.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey Guys,

    I am a muslim female. I adhere to my beliefs and my religion. I just wanted some advice.

    Recently, I have been desiring (I won't do it, just have the desire) to engage in physical contact with a guy e.g kissing, cuddling etc. Sexual frustration? Whatever you want to call it.

    How do you deal with these kind of things?

    And no, I am not ready to get married and settle down so don't bother suggesting that.

    Thank you.
    Don't masturbate or watch porn that's definitely a hole you dont want to dig.

    My only advice is try getting married early as the beloved Prophet Muhammed Pbuh advised s to, and to fight the sexual urges I've realised from my terrible history with it is to wait it out

    Sounds ridiculous but if you put your mind into doing something productive you should be able to ride out the sexual frustration fairy quickly- it doesn't last too long.

    Take care sister
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    Pray to Allah to get rid of your sexual desires?
    He is an All-loving God. He can do anything.
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    It's tough
    Like in our culture you can't even get married until 23, after you have completed your degree or whatever.
    Back in the day it was more acceptable to get married early.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Pray to Allah to get rid of your sexual desires?
    He is an All-loving God. He can do anything.
    Is this what you do, and does Allah remove your sexual urges?
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    (Original post by Plantagenet Crown)
    Why don't you masturbate?
    Yeah, when I was still Muslim all those years ago - I still jerked it like 8 times a day.
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    (Original post by Comme Des Garcon)
    Is this what you do, and does Allah remove your sexual urges?
    umm I don't really get sexual urges and I am not a muslim so no
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hey Guys,

    I am a muslim female. I adhere to my beliefs and my religion. I just wanted some advice.

    Recently, I have been desiring (I won't do it, just have the desire) to engage in physical contact with a guy e.g kissing, cuddling etc. Sexual frustration? Whatever you want to call it.

    How do you deal with these kind of things?

    And no, I am not ready to get married and settle down so don't bother suggesting that.

    Thank you.
    I had this one very religious Muslim buddy who didn't masturbate, the guy went ****ing insane when he was mid puberty, ended up getting married at 18 so he could have sex. ****ing nutter, just jerk the gherkin bro - no God would give you a clit if you weren't meant to enjoy it.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    umm I don't really get sexual urges and I am not a muslim so no
    Then don't chat sh*t!

    Silly girl.
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    I feel you, with me it all started with reading manga then hentai :/
    Stay strong insha'Allah we'll be rewarded for the struggle.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's not permissible!
    it's permissible if you feel like you're gonna go do something worse like have sex so yeah...
 
 
 
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