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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    I'm screaming😂😂😂😂😂 & idk man but they needa get rid of that sh**!
    Good to make people laugh.
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    (Original post by Lisa.Williams)
    Hello,

    As a girl who refuses to wear make-up, i get a lot of people criticising the way i look. Honestly, beauty is sooo subjective and i guarantee that there will be people who find you beautiful, average or below average (everybody is considered one of these to different people).

    If you can find the strength to accept who you are without asking for other people's advice, you'll come across a strong woman who doesn't need anybody to tell her what she already knows better than anyone else and - to me - that makes anybody attractive in their own way.
    thankyou sweetie, I know I should listen to you but I feel I need to know, people lie to me and tell me i'm pretty. Thankyou for the advice though x
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    How do i send my pic via messages as it comes up with 'add image from URL' but i can't add it???
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    I've been in the exact same position so i fully understand. It's just a phase but if you ever need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to ask. And you're very very very welcome! X
    (Original post by OliviaRose98!)
    thankyou sweetie, I know I should listen to you but I feel I need to know, people lie to me and tell me i'm pretty. Thankyou for the advice though x
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    PM me a pic and I'll give you my honest opinion. If you feel bad right now do not post a pic publicly because this site is full of trolls and they will be mean regardless whether you're pretty or "ugly"
    how do I PM you a pic?? sorry I haven't been on this site long and it won't let me attach an image
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    (Original post by Lisa.Williams)
    I've been in the exact same position so i fully understand. It's just a phase but if you ever need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to ask. And you're very very very welcome! X
    thankyou for understanding. I was worried in posting as I didn't want to be seen as attention-seeking but then i've seen lots of people do it. Honestly, i'm so tempted to post a pic publicly because i can't do it via pm. xx
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    It's okay. If you really want to, there's a thread called post a picture of yourself part iv. Don't worry about the way you look though. X
    (Original post by OliviaRose98!)
    thankyou for understanding. I was worried in posting as I didn't want to be seen as attention-seeking but then i've seen lots of people do it. Honestly, i'm so tempted to post a pic publicly because i can't do it via pm. xx
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    (Original post by Lisa.Williams)
    It's okay. If you really want to, there's a thread called post a picture of yourself part iv. Don't worry about the way you look though. X
    thankyou I've just posted my picture on that thread :O but i haven't got enough makeup on in it though but it was the only recent pic i could find with my natural smile. x
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    (Original post by OliviaRose98!)
    feel so insecure about how I look and it's so hard to take even one decent selfie. Just want to know, are any other girls in the same boat? like I wish I looked like some girls on fb and I know that sounds shallow.

    anyway, I want to post a pic of myself on here and see what anyone thinks because this is bothering me, strangers are more truthful. I don't know if that sounds silly but this seems like a friendly forum so if I get any response maybe i'll post of pic??
    That's most of what's wrong with social networks.
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    (Original post by OliviaRose98!)
    feel so insecure about how I look and it's so hard to take even one decent selfie. Just want to know, are any other girls in the same boat? like I wish I looked like some girls on fb and I know that sounds shallow.

    anyway, I want to post a pic of myself on here and see what anyone thinks because this is bothering me, strangers are more truthful. I don't know if that sounds silly but this seems like a friendly forum so if I get any response maybe i'll post of pic??
    I'm a good judge of girls looks, will give you good detailed feedback so post a pic on here or pm me it.
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    I'm a good judge of girls looks, will give you good detailed feedback so post a pic on here or pm me it.
    I can't pm sorry but I posted on the recent thread 'post a picture of yourself'
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    It would help if you disabled your feeds so that you aren't bombarded with pictures of models. Comparing isn't healthy. If there's no one to compare to you'll feel much better about yourself.
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    (Original post by Emerald7770)
    The last thing you wanna do when you have low self esteem is to post a pic on a public forum and ask for ratings.
    Yes! I really really don't understand it when people post pics on a public forum. It's like they're begging for every feature to be taken apart


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    (Original post by slade p)
    I'm a good judge of girls looks, will give you good detailed feedback so post a pic on here or pm me it.
    Detailed as in what? "I think you have a big nose that leans to the left and you have really thin lips". There isn't much that can be done about looks short of makeup or surgery. The OP should just learn to accept herself. Everyone has insecurities about their looks


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    (Original post by OliviaRose98!)
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    I can't pm sorry but I posted on the recent thread 'post a picture of yourself'
    ok i saw the pic, you're not ugly, you are average and decent looking.
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    DA ****?! I JUST SAW UR POST A PIC POST. Ur gorgeous, don't let anyone tell u ur not
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    (Original post by Sacred Ground)
    Who cares about your opinion? Who are you to judge whether OP is ugly or not?
    Pretty sure OP did care. Saw her pic. And my opinion was completly honest and kind. And I'd appreciate if you'd refrain from quoting me in things not concerning you. Being bitter gets you no where in life.
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Pretty sure OP did care. Saw her pic. And my opinion was completly honest and kind. And I'd appreciate if you'd refrain from quoting me in things not concerning you. Being bitter gets you no where in life.
    Not concerning me? This is a public forum. Bitter? Bitter about what? You were acting as if you were gods given gift and can dish out whether people are ugly or not.

    'PM a pic and I'll judge' LOLLOLOLOLOL

    How about no
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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    Detailed as in what? "I think you have a big nose that leans to the left and you have really thin lips". There isn't much that can be done about looks short of makeup or surgery. The OP should just learn to accept herself. Everyone has insecurities about their looks


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    lol i was just b.s-ing there, i just said that to encourage her to post the pic.
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    (Original post by Sacred Ground)
    Not concerning me? This is a public forum. Bitter? Bitter about what? You were acting as if you were gods given gift and can dish out whether people are ugly or not.

    'PM a pic and I'll judge' LOLLOLOLOLOL

    How about no
    Anyone who can read can clearly see I wasn"t acting like a "gods gift". Seriously man, I think you need professional help.
 
 
 
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