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Would love some advice :-)

Hey, so there's this guy I like, I'm thinking of making a move on him next week but Im not 100% how he's gona react... he's given me some reasons to think he likes me tho such as

1) asks about boyfriends etc. how I got together with someone, am I still going out with them, have i met their parents yet, how serious was i about him, he doesnt think we made a good match etc :smile:

2) makes constant eye contact, smiles at me everytime he sees me, shares private jokes with me, theres something in his eyes that just... i dunno just tells me he likes me!

3) bought me a drink once

4) says he likes photos of me

5) Has on more than one occassion done that... THING that lads do around girls they like, where they kind of shake one leg cause they have a stiffy lol, and then crossed his legs and looked really embarrassed

6) completely ignores other people when I'm there

7) went and bought a dvd to lend me because he knows it has my fave band, joy division on it

8) started listening to all my fave bands

9) does all body language signs that he likes me

10) sometimes ignores me, i think, to see if il go speak to him

etc

so, do you think i should go for it? im really terrified of rejection, because i have to see him all the time

please help me, i think im running out of time with him! :confused:

Reply 1

Symph

Just go for it :rolleyes:

Reply 2

username47781

Yeah go for it, if he says no then don't worry. But you'll never know otherwise.

Reply 3

randomgirl

It sounds like he likes you :biggrin:

Just ask him!

Reply 4

KaramelRose

I say go for it!!! The key thing for me is that he always makes eye contact with you and I know what you mean about "that look" when you can just tell! Sounds like he's pretty into you. I hope it all goes well!

Reply 5

shona

Little Victories

theres something in his eyes that just... i dunno just tells me he likes me!

Well, there you are then. You've already decided he seems to like you.

So why not go for it?

Isn't it better to take a risk and potentially end up falling in love and living happily ever after, than spending your life too scared to take chances and missing out on real happiness?

Not every frog will be your prince, but if you don't kiss any frogs, you'll certainly never find yours.

Take a chance. You never know.

PS Have more confidence in yourself. Why shouldn't he think you're great?

Reply 6

Little Victories

Thanx for replying guys :-)

Yeah Ive decided im gona go for it, life's too short really, if he rejects me I guess Ill just get over it, lol

im 90% postive he won't knock me back in any case, but you never know...

wish me luck! (havent got a clue what im gona say)

xx

Reply 7

username47781

Good luck, just ask him straight up if he wants to go out with you.

Reply 8

Chrisateen

Go for it you have nothing to lose and if it doesn't go well then you know at least you have tried and that you can move on

Reply 9

ro-ro

Little Victories

5) Has on more than one occassion done that... THING that lads do around girls they like, where they kind of shake one leg cause they have a stiffy lol, and then crossed his legs and looked really embarrassed

Oh my god. Boys do this, I've never noticed it but perhaps I haven't been looking. I always thought they twitched because they were twitchy. Is it like a twitch or something else I should look for?

Anyway I think you should go for it. It sounds like you're into each other. I hope it all works out.

Reply 10

I_am_the_mob

The signs appear to be there ( I am also slightly worried about number 5 :eek:

) Go for it!
Good luck :hugs:

Reply 11

erk

hilarious.

i shake my left leg. not because im hard like a dog on heat, but because it's a habit, some would say a sign of frustration/anger, but certainly not because im about to cum in my pants about a girl sitting near me.

:smile:

Reply 12

ro-ro

Perhaps more than five shakes is a habit and less means he wants to bonk your brains out?

Reply 13

I_am_the_mob

ro-ro

Perhaps more than five shakes is a habit and less means he wants to bonk your brains out?

Rofl!
That must be it :wink:

Reply 14

Megatronix

Little Victories

lmao just cos a guy does that doesn't mean they have a massive boner for you. Jeez lol. I almost spat out my drink when i read that. LOL, oh god i can't stop laughing. How many girls genuinly think this about guys?

It's called adjusting yourself, have you never had to do that for your boobs?

Back on track, yeah just go for it you have nothing to lose.

Reply 15

steelmole

I've never heard of that leg shake. Usually if I'm in a bad position I just stick my hand down my trousers and have a quick fondle.

Anyway, you clearly made this topic to get some people to agree with you. Your mind is already made up, you just want reassurance.

Reply 16

steelmole

I've never heard of the leg shake thing. usually I just have a quick fondle if i'm in the wrong position.

Anyway, you just made this topic for reassurance. You've already made up your mind. Remember you can never be 100% sure, that's why it's so fun.

Reply 17

Little Victories

Haha! maybe it's just the guys round where I live then lol

But tis deffos something they sometimes do, ive even had discussions about it with lads before

eh well, im just gona go for it anyways cheers everyone

x