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    So the women I have been dating for the last month and a half has become really distant all of a sudden. This includes her body language when we meet up which has been crossed arms and a bit distant, conversation being hard over the last week and her replying to only parts of my messages. We had a bit of a tetchy conversation a week ago but I am not sure if it is that or something else.

    She is a junior doc and has some crazy night shifts but even in similar periods before the conversation was there and more back and forth then it is right now.

    I really don't know what to do and it is brining my mood down. What do I do? I just don't have much experience in dealing with mood swings like this and I really do not want to overreact.
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    She could well be busy or stressed at work. When was the last time you asked her out on a date? If she's still agreeing to meet up with you, she has at least some interest in you. I wouldn't confront her about it, you could well be blowing this out of proportion right now.
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    just ask her
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    If it's bringing your mood down and you've only been seeing each other a month is it even worth it. Isn't the beginning when it's supposed to be best? I get that some people take a bit more time to warm up but it's hard to tell if you'd be wasting your time.
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    Give her a kitkat
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    Even recently this week there has been barely any messaging and she sometimes reads the WhatsApp message but doesn't reply for at least a day.
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    As someone who has dated etc, I would cool off if I had lost interest or didn't know how to cut ties with someone and hoped they'd get the hint. I'd say cut ties, especially if her body language is also closed off and she's not being affectionate.
 
 
 
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