Girlfriend acting all *****y

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She's probably just in a bad mood.

Remember no means yes according to a feminist.

Bit weird though, like she's using you as a sex slave

I thought everything meant no to feminists?

Reply 21

Spider man

Maybe she needed the D that day bad bit you didn't give it

Reply 22

S.G.

Original post by Underscore__

I thought everything meant no to feminists?

I don't try to think like them.

I'm sane

Reply 23

bones-mccoy

Original post by Anonymous

Thanks for the replies everyone. I'm just going to toughen up on her and show her who's in charge. She's gotten too *****y recently and needs to be put in her place. So ima do that. Then I'll tell her nicely that what shes doing isn't fair, she should get it then.

Bit harsh. You don't need to "show her who's in charge", just tell her how childish she's being.

Reply 24

DrSocSciences

When will men learn that the instinct to assert their dominance over women is, more often that not, immensely unattractive sexually? Asserting their dominance over other men is another story.

Reply 25

eden3

Original post by qasim_96

OP just have a word with her to let her know why you didn't. If she's in a bad mood after that then just let it be. Soon enough she'll get over it. You can't just have sex with someone if they don't want to. She'll get over it soon enough :smile:

Original post by SGHD26716

She's probably just in a bad mood.

Remember no means yes according to a feminist.

Bit weird though, like she's using you as a sex slave

AYMEN BROTHAS. dat was some bootiful advice u gave right dere.....

ngl same here :lol:

Reply 26

Ella-keturah

Original post by Anonymous

It just shows that most men of this society have put women on a pedestal, something of which I am not willing to accept. As someone who was once like this I've found being the one in charge in a relationship makes the other partner appreciate me more. Current gf clearly doesn't get it so needs to be shown it.

I don't think women should be put on a pedestal, but they don't need putting in their place either. Surely there's a happy medium where both people in the relationship have an equal say?

Reply 27

username1842595

Original post by DrSocSciences

When will men learn that the instinct to assert their dominance over women is, more often that not, immensely unattractive sexually? Asserting their dominance over other men is another story.

Not really. Asserting dominance in bed is very attractive but outwith that its not.

Reply 28

Zarek

Because guys are always supposed to be up for it it is a double insult.

Reply 29

DonaldMAGATrump

Original post by Anonymous

My and my gf (both 21) were hanging out yesterday afternoon and she initiated sex, usually we end up doing it but I wasn't feeling it yesterday so turned her down. She got pretty upset cos of this, not crying but acting all cold and *****y. Why do girls do this??? She's turned me down for sex in the past due to not being in the mood, period and so on. It is like guys aren't allowed to turn down a woman.

Don't know why I made this thread, I just need to let it out. What do you guys and girls suggest?

If you didn't feel like it, you haven't done anything wrong, but she wanted you to smash her- so you should have taken up the offer,even if you didn't want to.