How can I have sex with a guy WHEN I'M FAT

(Serious)

I really want a boyfriend/ to be intimate with a guy.
However, I'm fat. I'm not talking curvy, I'm talking size 16, 200lbs. (I weight train at the gym but my body fat is still high atm).
In the past 2 months I've been asked out twice, however, I could never sleep with anyone whilst I am this big.
I am trying to lose weight, I have lost 3.5 stone so far, however, I still have a long way to go.
I am considered "attractive" on some level, but why are guys asking me out when I'm a size 16 and too big to want to be sexual with/ see naked. I hardly know them, so it's not my personality...

Any size 16+ girls who have got past this and slept with the person?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

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Reply 2

It's****ingWOODY

20

Well, if they want to have sex with you, they must find you at least a bit attractive. Size 16 isn't hideously overweight by any stretch.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

I'm a slim guy that's had sex with big girls...

First few min we can't feel anything, but after a few min your vagina will tighten around the penis and its cool

Reply 4

UWS

21

Keep going to the gym and losing weight.

When you say you could never sleep with them, is that the guy's choice or yours? If it is the latter, then that's a confidence issue that will sort itself out once you lose more weight.

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username1842595

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Guys ask you out because theyre interested being fully aware that you are big. They want to get to know you. Plenty of big girls get laid.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Anonymous

I'm a slim guy that's had sex with big girls...

First few min we can't feel anything, but after a few min your vagina will tighten around the penis and its cool

Why did you want to have sex with a big girl when you could choose smaller ones with better bodies?

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Why did you want to have sex with a big girl when you could choose smaller ones with better bodies?

I have sex with anyone. Don't really have standards. I've slept with any woman I could get my paws on..

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Graduate_Medic

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Original post by Anonymous

(Serious)

I really want a boyfriend/ to be intimate with a guy.
However, I'm fat. I'm not talking curvy, I'm talking size 16, 200lbs. (I weight train at the gym but my body fat is still high atm).
In the past 2 months I've been asked out twice, however, I could never sleep with anyone whilst I am this big.
I am trying to lose weight, I have lost 3.5 stone so far, however, I still have a long way to go.
I am considered "attractive" on some level, but why are guys asking me out when I'm a size 16 and too big to want to be sexual with/ see naked. I hardly know them, so it's not my personality...

Any size 16+ girls who have got past this and slept with the person?

Some guys like curves. They don't see what you see when you look at your body - they see someone who's attractive even if that's not how you feel.

Reply 9

username1842595

6

Original post by Anonymous

Why did you want to have sex with a big girl when you could choose smaller ones with better bodies?

Because beauty is subjective and not everybody likes lanky girls

Reply 10

Sammylou40

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I'm a 16 and 180lbs. (5'8")
It did not stop me having my fair share of boyfriends
Or marrying my hubby 27 years ago!

Reply 11

Sammylou40

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Original post by Glassapple

@Glassapple
I'll do that. Are you paying?

Reply 12

username2911200

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Original post by Sammylou40

@Glassapple
I'll do that. Are you paying?

Yes, naturally.

Reply 13

Sammylou40

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Original post by Glassapple

Yes, naturally.

lol. Thank you.
Fortunately, being older, and hopefully wiser, I am happy with me and know I am truly loved for exactly who, and how, I am

Reply 14

Spider man

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Watch some bbw to get some hints and tips

Reply 15

SirMilkSheikh

11

Lots of guys struggle with women so they make due with what they can get, or they are fat themselves

Reply 16

yungaheartz

16

Don't have sex till you lose weight - no brainer really

Reply 17

somemightsay888

20

Don't sit on his face to avoid a GBH charge.

No but srs, if you're getting asked out then there is something about you, just carry on losing weight and as above said they're not blind they know you're fat and still ask you out so it's all good.

Reply 18

Anonymous #3

Sister you do know this is very Harram sex before marriage is forbidden in the eyes of God Convert to Islam the true religion and talk to the local imam about this issue after you get married cover yourself so other men do not gaze at you pray 5 times a day and repent to Allah so the evil shaythan will be cast out of your private parts as he is causing so much trouble God is merciful to his believers but he holds no mercy to disbelievers

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username47781

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Original post by Anonymous

(Serious)

I really want a boyfriend/ to be intimate with a guy.
However, I'm fat. I'm not talking curvy, I'm talking size 16, 200lbs. (I weight train at the gym but my body fat is still high atm).
In the past 2 months I've been asked out twice, however, I could never sleep with anyone whilst I am this big.
I am trying to lose weight, I have lost 3.5 stone so far, however, I still have a long way to go.
I am considered "attractive" on some level, but why are guys asking me out when I'm a size 16 and too big to want to be sexual with/ see naked. I hardly know them, so it's not my personality...

Any size 16+ girls who have got past this and slept with the person?

Size 16 isn't that big, I been out with someone who was size 18 then again I don't know I have always prefered girls who are a bit bigger

How can I have sex with a guy WHEN I'M FAT

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