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Kagutsuchi

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Depends. Can you let the fantasy cross the border into reality?

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Joanna May

15

That depends. What do you mean by saying there's a 'spark' with girls?

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sTe\/o

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Assuming you're a male, I would say it's more likely you're gay if you're only fantasising about boys.

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Anonymous #1

spark as in a pleasant, excited feeling
and I would love to act out the fantasy but dont know whether it would work

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Anonymous #1

yeah, im male

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midtownmadness

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I know that Im respnsible for my sexuality but I would like others opinions. I prefer the company of girls and there is a spark with girls but I only ever sexually fantasise about boys. Does this make me bisexual?

depends, i think you are bi-curious

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sTe\/o

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OP, have you ever fantasised about girls?

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Joanna May

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Anonymous

yeah, im male

You could have said that in your original post, it does make a difference. I would say you're bi curious if you just have the fantasies. Chat up a boy and find out?

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sTe\/o

OP, have you ever fantasised about girls?

very rarely,i dont find boobs attractive but on the otherhand im not effeminate but perhaps effeminacy is just a stereotype

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Bismarck

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Anonymous

I know that Im respnsible for my sexuality but I would like others opinions. I prefer the company of girls and there is a spark with girls but I only ever sexually fantasise about boys. Does this make me bisexual?

Does it really matter? You get to define who you are. Gay, bisexual, bi-curious, etc. are just arbitrary labels.

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mollymustard

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Have you ever done anything with guys or are you just curious about what it would be like?

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Fairy.Dust.Forever

I DREAM about girls but fancy boys.... but i'm not bi or gay or anything. I tested it all out. Don't supress anything. Do you fancy any particular guys that you fantacise about? Is it 'random' people? I found that I was just curious about it, I definately only 'fancy' guys. Maybe you can work it all out in your dreams? If you do find that you're bi... at least you know you're not supressing that part of yourself. Just be honest with yourself, take other people's opinions out of the equation. It helps.

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Fairy.Dust.Forever

I DREAM about girls but fancy boys.... but i'm not bi or gay or anything. I tested it all out. Don't supress anything. Do you fancy any particular guys that you fantacise about? Is it 'random' people? I found that I was just curious about it, I definitely only 'fancy' guys. Maybe you can work it all out in your dreams? If you do find that you're bi... at least you know you're not supressing that part of yourself. Just be honest with yourself, take other people's opinions out of the equation. It helps.

thanks, i think ill refuse to put a label until i hav more experience but even then perhaps a label should be avoided

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Fairy.Dust.Forever

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thanks, i think ill refuse to put a label until i hav more experience but even then perhaps a label should be avoided

label shmabel. Even if someone turns out to be bi, aren't they either gay or straight.... unless they're ina relationship with a boy and a girl. :redface:

Nevermind. Pointless point :|

I was a bit worried about it and it sounds strange, but I was thinking to myself and just saying - no you're not gay/ bi.... but it was like I was saying it to an audience..... to confirm to everyone else that i'm not weird. Fact is, I had a curiousity. I played around with it. My mind made itself up. Take your time though, you might discover something you're not ready for.

Don't be afraid to try things out though... just don't push yourself beyond what's comfortable. Good luck... :smile:

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