Germ problem

Basically I have a problem with germs and dirt, slight OCD you might say.
But recently it's started to affect mine and my boyfriends relationship.

I can't kiss him anymore, because the thought of his saliva makes me feel sick, also I make him wash his hands and brush his teeth constantly, but this doesn't seem to make me feel any better.

I feel really bad about it, but I just can't get rid of the thought of germs.

Reply 1

Invocation

If you are too clean, your immune system will go down hill. And sooner or later you'll be a lot more at risk from illness. I don't know how, but sort it out!

Reply 2

mollymustard

You need to go and see the doctor about this.
Obessions like OCD are unhealthy, and take control over your life.
My auntie used to have a similar problem to you, and it gradually made her feel lower and lower.

Most OCD sufferers use it to gain control over their lives because they do not feel sucessful in other areas or do not feel independant enough.
It is essentially a mental problem and you should go and get treatment for this.

If you feel panicky around germs, your doctor may be able to give you medication and you may be refered to a psychologist who will be able to give you CBT where you will gradually be trained to feel less fear of germs.

Reply 3

YAP

Yes, it does sound like an OCD developing, and it would be better to try and sort it out now before it develops into a major problem. Go and chat with your GP, you might benefit from a course of counselling :smile: