Why you don't get a second dateWatch
As a male who has an inability to form emotional attachments I have been on a rather unfortunate amount of first dates.
Hroblems I've found are:
1) women are often rude to the waitress
Like seriously wtf that's a human being
2) totally unrepresentative photos on internet dating - you're going to be found out
3) expecting me to pay for everything. Like seriously if I earn twice as much and know it I'll insist on paying for at least the vast majority with some token gesture thrown in... But the sense if entitlement when it's expected? No thanks. It's a choice mot an obligation
So go ahead. I'm sure men do really obnoxious and probably creepy ****.
What puts you off on a first date?
One of my first dates was pretty boring from the get go and I just didn't feel that connection with her, so I decided not to progress to the next date. Maybe it takes longer for some people but there's no point forcing it if you don't feel it.