I'm really sorry for everyone who lost any parents,the most annoying thing is the shock,how you'd never think about the person dieing and then suddenly they do, I actully dont believe in shrinks to all do respect to shrinks out there,I feel they do nothing,you can talk to a frined and he/she would understand you more than analysing you and your feelings into scientific terms
my mum has incurable cancer.
Neither of my parents have passed away, but when i was about 18months old they divorced and my new stepfather didnt want me to be part of his new family and my father wasn't allowed custody of me as he was abusive. I got adopted by my grandparents and have lived with them ever since. i haven't had any contact with my mother for 17 years which isn't too bad in itself, its just when people tell me i'm so much like her i would have liked to have known her. There is a lot of hate in my heart for her because she walked away from me but at the same time i've got the most wonderful parents even if they are not mine by birth. The last turn of the dagger was when my father told me he that he didn't want anything mroe to do with me on my 18th bday as he considered me to be a financial drain..i have never asked him for anything...its just what life throws at us and we all have to make the best of it that we can. I hope that all of you who are grieving and have worries and problems find someway to sort them out and something to give you the strength to tackle them
all the best with that situation.... (Kohlstream) I hope something special happens to mayb not 2day but one day.... not onli that but it takes a lot of guts... You have my utmost RESPECT
my dad died when I was reali young so I suppose its easy to cope becoz I neva fully understood, but I wud of loved to have gotten to kno him beta
I must agree that is hard to accept a lost member of the family and it will always weigh on your mind. It happens to me because of my dad when he died, but the situation which is the worst one for me is when Fathers day comes around and evryone goes out with their dad and I jst well.. I dunno what I do, I pretend its another day.