Is anyone on Okcupid? If so, has anything met anyone from there?Watch
I joined a week ago.
Has anyone found love on there?
I've basically put that I'm looking for a (real) cat lover who can cook/bake who doesn't smoke or do recreational drugs that's romantic and affectionate.
Just use tinder. Unless you are a right munter you'll be getting it on tonight.
The only thing I want to happen in a bed is a 2 hour+ cuddle session.
What I don't like about Okcupid is that they ask so many sexual questions, there should be a way to not have them being asked...
There were A LOT of thirsty guys on there, heck I even got a few women writing to me as well. About 80% of them were simply looking for no-strings sex, I had to change things around several times to be more specific. I ended up saying I was just there looking to get a date, dated at least 4 different guys in the end, all were more or less the same - nice enough, kinda bland, a bit stingy, a bit uptight and fairly over-entitled. All assumed that paying for the date automatically gave them entry into my pants. I don't know if things are different for guys on there but there are a good percentage of people looking for love or something long-term, you just have to be careful to weed out the right ones - and again, BE SPECIFIC. If you don't want just sex, then say it
Some further info - try to make your profile interesting but not boring, don't write an essay. Don't be insulting. Realistically very few people even read the profiles. Add a few pics - one or two of the face, one whole body, nothing embarrassing, nothing too desperate. Just look nice and normal.
Online dating can be tough!