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So I'm a teenager and I sent nudes just because. I honestly cant find the exact reason I did it but I did. I feel guilty and I prayed (My belief in god isn't the reason for my guilt) I promised myself never to do it again and I haven't but now I think about my future dates and husband and idk. I feel like a whore. The guy I sent them to claimed to delete my picture (it was only my boobs) And that makes me feel a little better. I really need support and advice for future relationships. No I haven't told my parents. (I think it's better off left unsaid)
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Who you sent them to

Repent and,don't send again, resist the urge.

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(Original post by Potatogurl)
So I'm a teenager and I sent nudes just because. I honestly cant find the exact reason I did it but I did. I feel guilty and I prayed (My belief in god isn't the reason for my guilt) I promised myself never to do it again and I haven't but now I think about my future dates and husband and idk. I feel like a whore. The guy I sent them to claimed to delete my picture (it was only my boobs) And that makes me feel a little better. I really need support and advice for future relationships. No I haven't told my parents. (I think it's better off left unsaid)
Top tip: don't send nudes.
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Ladies and gentlemen, another reason why religion is pointless in today's society
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
So I'm a teenager and I sent nudes just because. I honestly cant find the exact reason I did it but I did. I feel guilty and I prayed (My belief in god isn't the reason for my guilt) I promised myself never to do it again and I haven't but now I think about my future dates and husband and idk. I feel like a whore. The guy I sent them to claimed to delete my picture (it was only my boobs) And that makes me feel a little better. I really need support and advice for future relationships. No I haven't told my parents. (I think it's better off left unsaid)
I can see why you feel uncomfortable but was your face in them?
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nice work
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The guy will probs already have forgotten.
You need to accept this happened, repent, then forgive yourself too.
Everyone does things they regret.
Learn from it, if it makes you feel rubbish etc it's not for you. We learn from our mistakes.
Nothing to worry about if your face was out of the pic.
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nice work
Haha

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Not Christian beliefs, just discipline
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Ladies and gentlemen, another reason why religion is pointless in today's society
I just said my reason of guilt wasn't because I was religious. I prayed. That's it. Chill. I'm not asking for any religious help lmao.
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I can see why you feel uncomfortable but was your face in them?
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Was one boob pic. And no my face wasn't in them. I don't feel a lot of guilt bc boobs are for nurturing and babies...so it wasnt like I was sending him a full nude or whatever.
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For everyone saying "Dont send nudes" I haven't and that was a long time ago. I'm just asking like relationship wise how will this affect me and all that ********.
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We live and learn, don't we?

As long as it doesn't have your face in it then you'll be fine. Try not to worry about it too much.
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
For everyone saying "Dont send nudes" I haven't and that was a long time ago. I'm just asking like relationship wise how will this affect me and all that ********.
What do you mean?
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Not Christian beliefs, just discipline
Also I'm not religious... I just believe in god. Religion controls people. If I chose to be spiritual then that's my individual choice, I do understand that I made a bad choice but I'm owning up to it and I'm asking how to improve my feelings toward the subject. None of us should be pinning this on my beliefs.
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What do you mean?
One the first responses suggested I didn't send any more nudes, I'm just making it clear that it was only once and it was a long time ago so I have no intention of doing it again.
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
One the first responses suggested I didn't send any more nudes, I'm just making it clear that it was only once and it was a long time ago so I have no intention of doing it again.
In what way do you think this may affect your future relationships?
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Top tip: don't send nudes.
Yeah because obviously telling someone not to do something they said they were never gonna do again and haven't since that one time will automatically solve guilt and clear up the conversation when I get a boyfriend/girlfriend


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In what way do you think this may affect your future relationships?
The person might think I'm a slut or whatever. Ik it was once but people blow that type of stuff up and it isn't exactly normal to send a nude. I don't wanna hurt anybody either.
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
The person might think I'm a slut or whatever. Ik it was once but people blow that type of stuff up and it isn't exactly normal to send a nude. I don't wanna hurt anybody either.
If someone judges you for it then they can f*** off- they aren't worthit.

Also, what is the likelihood that anyone will find out about this nude? Sounds like you're catastrophising.

I can hear that it was never your intention to hurt anybody, and so any reasonable person will acknowledge this.
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