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(Original post by Emily.97)
If someone judges you for it then they can f*** off- they aren't worthit.

Also, what is the likelihood that anyone will find out about this nude? Sounds like you're catastrophising.

I can hear that it was never your intention to hurt anybody, and so any reasonable person will acknowledge this.
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ most people like to be with people who haven't shown anyone anything. I mean idc but still.
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I just said my reason of guilt wasn't because I was religious. I prayed. That's it. Chill. I'm not asking for any religious help lmao.
It almost certainly is. The fact you instantly think about being a "whore" nd how this will affect future relationships is part of your indoctrination into the unofficial cult of Christianity
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ most people like to be with people who haven't shown anyone anything. I mean idc but still.
Yep, most people sure do. OP will almost certainly be called a slut. Only that nobody will care enough to ask, and this is a total non-problem that OP should just deal with and get over.
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It almost certainly is. The fact you instantly think about being a "whore" nd howl this will affect future relationships is part of your indoctrination into the unofficial cult of Christianity
You're just reaching now. Give it up. Not every post on TSR has to turn into a bash Christianity thread. Jheez you've got too much free time. You are speaking out of line - it's disrespectful and not your place to belittle anyone else's religion/beliefs/values just because you don't agree. Grow up. Keep it moving.
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It's over and done with! Your face isn't in it so you can deny any involvement until the day you die πŸ˜‰.
Hopefully it was someone you trust, and who is worthy of your trust. Then you should have no reason to worry. You are not a whore! Just a girl who made a mistake. It happens. I make them 24/7. We are human. We aren't perfect. It's natural. It's all part of the journey of building character.
Sometimes you need to give yourself grace too.
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(Original post by ColorMiKiki)
You're just reaching now. Give it up. Not every post on TSR has to turn into a bash Christianity thread. Jheez you've got too much free time. You are speaking out of line - it's disrespectful and not your place to belittle anyone else's religion/beliefs/values just because you don't agree. Grow up. Keep it moving.
Too much free time? It took me about a minute to type up the comment, and the last time i hard the "free time" response was probably year 1? Along with the "get a life" one as well. Classics.

How am i speaking out of line in any way? Its well known that Christianity teaches these ideas from an early age, and I really dont appreciate your hostile attitude. Quite ugly if i may say so.

Oh theres another one, "Grow Up". Lovely, I feel like we're back in the playground.

Thanks for the nostalgia trip, but apart from that it was a pretty worthless comment from you.
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Too much free time? It took me about a minute to type up the comment, and the last time i hard the "free time" response was probably year 1? Along with the "get a life" one as well. Classics.

How am i speaking out of line in any way? Its well known that Christianity teaches these ideas from an early age, and I really dont appreciate your hostile attitude. Quite ugly if i may say so.

Oh theres another one, "Grow Up". Lovely, I feel like we're back in the playground.

Thanks for the nostalgia trip, but apart from that it was a pretty worthless comment from you.
How is this? - "You're a neckbeard-adorned, bespectacled mongrel, with nothing more meaningful to do than crush harmless lobsters softly into the sand."
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How is this? - "You're a neckbeard-adorned, bespectacled mongrel, with nothing more meaningful to do than crush harmless lobsters softly into the sand."
What?
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So I'm a teenager and I sent nudes just because. I honestly cant find the exact reason I did it but I did. I feel guilty and I prayed (My belief in god isn't the reason for my guilt) I promised myself never to do it again and I haven't but now I think about my future dates and husband and idk. I feel like a whore. The guy I sent them to claimed to delete my picture (it was only my boobs) And that makes me feel a little better. I really need support and advice for future relationships. No I haven't told my parents. (I think it's better off left unsaid)
Hey! Just to let you know: It's okay. You aren't a whore. You aren't a terrible person.

You did something a lot of people do and you regret it. That's it. Do you know how many things I regret? A ton. As a dude, I can tell you that I would be totally okay for the worst thing on my conscience would be me taking a pic of my boobs.

Seriously - Don't beat yourself up. It happens. Sometimes, we do things we aren't proud of - And what you did is certainly not worth you feeling badly about.

You are awesome.
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It almost certainly is. The fact you instantly think about being a "whore" nd how this will affect future relationships is part of your indoctrination into the unofficial cult of Christianity
I'm not christan. I feel this way because I feel this way. I have guilt. I am a human you know.
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You're just reaching now. Give it up. Not every post on TSR has to turn into a bash Christianity thread. Jheez you've got too much free time. You are speaking out of line - it's disrespectful and not your place to belittle anyone else's religion/beliefs/values just because you don't agree. Grow up. Keep it moving.
I wanna give you a hug rn.
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(Original post by CatInTheBox)
Yep, most people sure do. OP will almost certainly be called a slut. Only that nobody will care enough to ask, and this is a total non-problem that OP should just deal with and get over.
Legit πŸ‘ŒOP is listening.
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
I'm not christan. I feel this way because I feel this way. I have guilt. I am a human you know.
What are you then? Muslim? Jewish? Doesn't matter, they all force the same ideas down the throats of the young ones to give them a subconscious feeling of guilt whenever they do something against the teachings
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(Original post by Potatogurl)
So I'm a teenager and I sent nudes just because. I honestly cant find the exact reason I did it but I did. I feel guilty and I prayed (My belief in god isn't the reason for my guilt) I promised myself never to do it again and I haven't but now I think about my future dates and husband and idk. I feel like a whore. The guy I sent them to claimed to delete my picture (it was only my boobs) And that makes me feel a little better. I really need support and advice for future relationships. No I haven't told my parents. (I think it's better off left unsaid)
Look there is nothing you can do about it now so just forgive yourself and forget! x
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sending nudes is honestly no big deal... dudes watch porn all the time, they've probably seen hundreds of naked women. there's nothing wrong with showing a guy you naked, especially since he couldn't even see your face in the picture. i think you're overreacting, people always like to make a big deal out of sending sexual pictures online by telling you it's bad, but once you start to realise this is literally so common, you'll understand there's not even anything wrong with what you've done. because really, what actually is bad about a guy seeing your boobs? it's only because society has sexualised women so badly and then shames them for literally anything. guys don't feel bad when they send **** pics, don't feel bad you sent someone a nude. don't do it again if you're not comfortable with it, but a lot of girls find taking nudes and thirst traps fun and that's only because they've realised there's nothing wrong with a girl doing the same things a dude can do and get away with. also, there's nothing wrong with being sexual. i promise you this will have literally no effect on any future relationships. you'll be fine
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(Original post by That'sGreat)
What are you then? Muslim? Jewish? Doesn't matter, they all force the same ideas down the throats of the young ones to give them a subconscious feeling of guilt whenever they do something against the teachings
So i cant feel guilt because I did something I'M not okay with?


K. At this point in time I'm just gonna stop talking to you. And to answer your question: I'm spiritual. I believe in god but not in religion. And once again I'm guilty for myself and my future. Not a fear tactic. Get that through your thick ass skull.
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I can relate. I always said to myself that sending nudes Is stupid and that it was wrong but last week I ended up sending 2 nudes to a boy online and I knew it was wrong but I still did it and I regretted so much but I can relate. Just forget about it like it never happened and don't do it again because i forgor and left it for the past. BTW I did this on my 17th birthday πŸ˜‚
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Don't send nudes, end of that.
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So i cant feel guilt because I did something I'M not okay with?


K. At this point in time I'm just gonna stop talking to you. And to answer your question: I'm spiritual. I believe in god but not in religion. And once again I'm guilty for myself and my future. Not a fear tactic. Get that through your thick ass skull.
Thick ass skull? Which one of us sent the nudes again?

Are your parents also spiritual or do they follow a religion? I never once said you can't be guilty because you did something you're not ok with, don't attempt at making things up - but considering its society that creates these ideas that you should feel guilty, which stems from Christian beliefs - we can clearly see I was right.
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Nothing wrong with sending nudes as long as you're single and the person you're sending to is single. simples. You don't have to feel guilty, you decide what you wanna do with your own body, not anyone else,

Unless you're religious, I don't know anything about that though. I'm not.
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