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    I'm 17 on the 30th of this month. A 13 year old guy at a Pokemon card group I attend (I was there today), has recently come out as gay and is obsessed with me. I am in no way interested (for obvious reasons), but he won't leave me alone. I can't just avoid him because we attend the same group, where I have people my age and older to speak to and play with.

    For the last week he's been continuously flirting with me and asking me out, every time I tell him to go away and that I'm not interested prompts him to keep trying. This afternoon he got his friend to ask me out for him, I said no to the friend and then an hour later he asked me himself, telling me we'd have a 'great time' and I'm the 'most awesome guy [he's] met'. Someone gave him my number a few hours ago (I don't know who, I never gave it him), I blocked him after he kept texting me. How can I get rid of him? Ignoring him doesn't work and telling him no doesn't work.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I'm 17 on the 30th of this month. A 13 year old guy at a Pokemon card group I attend (I was there today), has recently come out as gay and is obsessed with me. I am in no way interested (for obvious reasons), but he won't leave me alone. I can't just avoid him because we attend the same group, where I have people my age and older to speak to and play with.

    For the last week he's been continuously flirting with me and asking me out, every time I tell him to go away and that I'm not interested prompts him to keep trying. This afternoon he got his friend to ask me out for him, I said no to the friend and then an hour later he asked me himself, telling me we'd have a 'great time' and I'm the 'most awesome guy [he's] met'. Someone gave him my number a few hours ago (I don't know who, I never gave it him), I blocked him after he kept texting me. How can I get rid of him? Ignoring him doesn't work and telling him no doesn't work.
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    define "get rid" <-- meant to be a sinister grin but it doesnt work too well :l Idk

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    Typical Glassapple is typical. You're tapidly turning into the Unicron de nos jours.
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    (Original post by Relentas)
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    define "get rid" <-- meant to be a sinister grin but it doesnt work too well :l Idk



    My definition of 'get rid' would be for him to stop flirting with me and stop asking me out all the times

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    Typical Glassapple is typical
    Didn't we all stop using variations of that line in 2010?
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    Aren't you still busy with the 23 yr old teacher?
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    Didn't we all stop using variations of that line in 2010?
    Look at all these ****s I give:

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    You do get yourself into some pickles. You should probably tell him "no" very firmly (but without being a count). Eventually he'll get the message and leave you alone.
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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    You do get yourself into some pickles. You should probably tell him "no" very firmly (but without being a count). Eventually he'll get the message and leave you alone.
    I've done that for the last week, it hasn't worked. There must be something else I can do?
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    tell him you're straight
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    (Original post by eden3)
    tell him you're straight
    Considering this afternoon he saw me snogging another guy I was sitting next to, that's not going to work.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I've done that for the last week, it hasn't worked. There must be something else I can do?
    He's very young and has just come out, so his head is probably in the clouds at the minute. He'll probably get bored soon and move on to someone else, but you may have to just wait it out. Don't be too harsh on him!
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I've done that for the last week, it hasn't worked. There must be something else I can do?
    You could just be harsh as **** and crush him, but that would be a last resort.
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    (Original post by YaliaV)
    He's very young and has just come out, so his head is probably in the clouds at the minute. He'll probably get bored soon and move on to someone else, but you may have to just wait it out. Don't be too harsh on him!
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    You could just be harsh as **** and crush him, but that would be a last resort.
    I'm considering being really to him tomorrow (I know I'll see him then), but I don't want everyone there else to start disliking me because of it.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I'm considering being really to him tomorrow (I know I'll see him then), but I don't want everyone there else to start disliking me because of it.
    Yeah, it would probably ruin the group for you. I'm sure you had crushes at his age too; try to be understanding, however hard it is. Most 13 year olds are fickle and the novelty will wear off soon for him.
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I'm considering being really to him tomorrow (I know I'll see him then), but I don't want everyone there else to start disliking me because of it.
    ridiculous
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    (Original post by Count Bezukhov)
    Pokemon, eh?

    If he sleeps with you, he'll probably catch 'em all.
    I see what you did there, but I haven't got any STIs, thank you for your concern.

    (Original post by YaliaV)
    Yeah, it would probably ruin the group for you. I'm sure you had crushes at his age too; try to be understanding, however hard it is. Most 13 year olds are fickle and the novelty will wear off soon for him.
    It might not ruin the group for me (as there are guys my age there I sleep with, he knows this), though you're right it could, it might turn some of the group against me, especially those I don't actively socialise with. I just know that if I say the same things tomorrow that I said today, nothing will change. I have been very firm and explained all the reasons why I'm not interested, but he's still persisting.

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    ridiculous
    Do you have anything productive to add to this thread?
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    (Original post by Glassapple)
    I see what you did there, but I ha met got any STIs, thank you for your concern.

    It might not ruin the group for me (as there are guys my age there I sleep with, he knows this), though you're right it could, it might turn some of the group against me, especially those I don't actively socialise with. I just know that if I say the same things tomorrow that I said today, nothing will change. I have been very firm and explained all the reasons why I'm not interested, but he's still persisting.
    Oh, but I couldn't resist the opportunity to land a critical hit :rofl:
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    Tell him one of your kinks to scare him away for life?
 
 
 
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