13 year old is obsessed with me & wants to be my boyfriend, he won't leave me alone.Watch
For the last week he's been continuously flirting with me and asking me out, every time I tell him to go away and that I'm not interested prompts him to keep trying. This afternoon he got his friend to ask me out for him, I said no to the friend and then an hour later he asked me himself, telling me we'd have a 'great time' and I'm the 'most awesome guy [he's] met'. Someone gave him my number a few hours ago (I don't know who, I never gave it him), I blocked him after he kept texting me. How can I get rid of him? Ignoring him doesn't work and telling him no doesn't work.
He's very young and has just come out, so his head is probably in the clouds at the minute. He'll probably get bored soon and move on to someone else, but you may have to just wait it out. Don't be too harsh on him!
Yeah, it would probably ruin the group for you. I'm sure you had crushes at his age too; try to be understanding, however hard it is. Most 13 year olds are fickle and the novelty will wear off soon for him.
I see what you did there, but I haven't got any STIs, thank you for your concern.
It might not ruin the group for me (as there are guys my age there I sleep with, he knows this), though you're right it could, it might turn some of the group against me, especially those I don't actively socialise with. I just know that if I say the same things tomorrow that I said today, nothing will change. I have been very firm and explained all the reasons why I'm not interested, but he's still persisting.
Do you have anything productive to add to this thread?