Would it be a turn off for most guys?
I have natural Afro hair and from since I was aware of my appearance I had relaxed hair (chemically straightened). I decided to grow out all of my relaxed hair and cut it off because my hair was damaged.
I feel like I don't feel as attractive with my hair sometimes, I don't know if it's because it's not as long as I would want it to be ( it's just above shoulder length when curly and shoulder length when straight) or because I'm not used to dealing with my texture hair.
I don't really want to relax my hair again but I feel like I can never accept it.