GIRLS HELP: My labia is really long is this normal? Watch

Yikesnodont1
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(Original post by barnetlad)
Do men care? Not if they are worth knowing, and in almost all cases, no.
Thanks for this, I agree
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(Original post by ParadoxSocks)
Labia come in all shapes and sizes and whatever you have is perfectly fine as long as it doesn't cause you any sort of discomfort. If it does, you can talk to your doctor.

Porn stars aren't really a healthy comparison - it's literally their job to have a "perfect" hoo-ha. By the time anyone has you naked, they'll be too blinking excited to have an actual naked human in front of them! You can't really ask what "boys" like because each has their own thing, and some don't even know that they have a thing until they meet something new.
This made me feel more accepting and generally better, thank you for explaining.
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I don't actually watch much so I'm fairly clueless to be honest! Thank you though.
Then chill lol. There are infinite differences in women's labias.
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Its completely normal its the pornstars who mutilate themselve who arent natural. Im a man and i find it very attractive, so embrace them
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That's actually the most common type of labia.

The porn star style ones that stay tucked in are the rarest kind, and a lot of porn stars get labia plasty.

I PROMISE, you are normal. And remember, how it looks on the outside doesn't mean you are "looser"- that's just not how it works. If you are worried about what men will think, most of them will just be thankful to get to see it, regardless of appearance...
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I've tormented myself for quite a few years about this. Mine certainly doesn't look like the girls in porn, and like you I'm too embarrassed to talk to friends and family about it. I'll most likely resort to surgery at some point to resolve the issue.
What I will say is no guy has outwardly had an issue with it, or at least ever said anything negative, but it has held me back over the years. I've only ever been intimate with a guy after trusting him enough to know he wouldn't be cruel. I think I'd have more confidence too in the bedroom without worrying about what it looks like down there.

I'm definitely not advocating surgery, but for me it's a part of my body I struggle with and has affected my confidence. People get boob jobs all the time, so why shouldn't I contemplate changing that part of me. I wouldn't be doing it for other people (my OH has said he doesn't think there's anything wrong with it at all), I'd be doing it for my own peace of mind!

Just wanted to you to know you're not alone and you shouldn't worry too much. Like most have already said, I'm not sure guys actually mind all that much or take much notice of a larger than average labia.
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when he wants sex he just wants sex. he wouldn't care if she stank bad, hadn't shaved, whatever. so long as he gets laid thats all that will matter, he won't notice anything
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Mine certainly doesn't look like the girls in porn
Is categorically NOT the same as

(Original post by Anonymous)
a larger than average labia
You need to listen to your boyfriend's appreciation, not look at pornstars (who, as said above have probably had surgery anyway). They are not natural and you shouldn't use them as a measure.

What would you say to your boyfriend if he was contemplating surgery because he isn't hung like a pornstar?
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(Original post by Crumpet1)
Is categorically NOT the same as



You need to listen to your boyfriend's appreciation, not look at pornstars (who, as said above have probably had surgery anyway). They are not natural and you shouldn't use them as a measure.

What would you say to your boyfriend if he was contemplating surgery because he isn't hung like a pornstar?
He actually is quite insecure about various things about his body. Of course I do everything I can to try and make him feel better about it, but I know I can only do and say so much. I can empathise because I know what it's like to be insecure about a part of your body even when you know it's really not that big of a deal, and your partner loves you regardless.
I am realistic, and I've thought over it a lot. I know a huge proportion of porn stars will have had surgery. I'm not 100% decided yet but it's an option, and not one I'll rush in to if I do go for it! For one thing it's not cheap!
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i have long labia to and yes it’s a same insecurity but i try not to worry about it 😂 lol i just go on sites like these to tell myself it’s normal
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