GIRLS HELP: My labia is really long is this normal?

Watch
This discussion is closed.
Yikesnodont1
Badges: 7
Rep:
?
#21
Report Thread starter 3 years ago
#21
(Original post by barnetlad)
Do men care? Not if they are worth knowing, and in almost all cases, no.
Thanks for this, I agree
0
Yikesnodont1
Badges: 7
Rep:
?
#22
Report Thread starter 3 years ago
#22
(Original post by ParadoxSocks)
Labia come in all shapes and sizes and whatever you have is perfectly fine as long as it doesn't cause you any sort of discomfort. If it does, you can talk to your doctor.

Porn stars aren't really a healthy comparison - it's literally their job to have a "perfect" hoo-ha. By the time anyone has you naked, they'll be too blinking excited to have an actual naked human in front of them! You can't really ask what "boys" like because each has their own thing, and some don't even know that they have a thing until they meet something new.
This made me feel more accepting and generally better, thank you for explaining.
1
Nirvana1989-1994
  • Political Ambassador
Badges: 20
Rep:
?
#23
Report 3 years ago
#23
(Original post by Katelrxo)
I don't actually watch much so I'm fairly clueless to be honest! Thank you though.
Then chill lol. There are infinite differences in women's labias.
0
Kingflippynips
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#24
Report 2 years ago
#24
Its completely normal its the pornstars who mutilate themselve who arent natural. Im a man and i find it very attractive, so embrace them
0
Jzargo
Badges: 4
Rep:
?
#25
Report 2 years ago
#25
That's actually the most common type of labia.

The porn star style ones that stay tucked in are the rarest kind, and a lot of porn stars get labia plasty.

I PROMISE, you are normal. And remember, how it looks on the outside doesn't mean you are "looser"- that's just not how it works. If you are worried about what men will think, most of them will just be thankful to get to see it, regardless of appearance...
0
Anonymous #1
#26
Report 2 years ago
#26
I've tormented myself for quite a few years about this. Mine certainly doesn't look like the girls in porn, and like you I'm too embarrassed to talk to friends and family about it. I'll most likely resort to surgery at some point to resolve the issue.
What I will say is no guy has outwardly had an issue with it, or at least ever said anything negative, but it has held me back over the years. I've only ever been intimate with a guy after trusting him enough to know he wouldn't be cruel. I think I'd have more confidence too in the bedroom without worrying about what it looks like down there.

I'm definitely not advocating surgery, but for me it's a part of my body I struggle with and has affected my confidence. People get boob jobs all the time, so why shouldn't I contemplate changing that part of me. I wouldn't be doing it for other people (my OH has said he doesn't think there's anything wrong with it at all), I'd be doing it for my own peace of mind!

Just wanted to you to know you're not alone and you shouldn't worry too much. Like most have already said, I'm not sure guys actually mind all that much or take much notice of a larger than average labia.
0
goggleyed
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#27
Report 2 years ago
#27
when he wants sex he just wants sex. he wouldn't care if she stank bad, hadn't shaved, whatever. so long as he gets laid thats all that will matter, he won't notice anything
0
Crumpet1
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#28
Report 2 years ago
#28
(Original post by Anonymous)
Mine certainly doesn't look like the girls in porn
Is categorically NOT the same as

(Original post by Anonymous)
a larger than average labia
You need to listen to your boyfriend's appreciation, not look at pornstars (who, as said above have probably had surgery anyway). They are not natural and you shouldn't use them as a measure.

What would you say to your boyfriend if he was contemplating surgery because he isn't hung like a pornstar?
0
Anonymous #1
#29
Report 2 years ago
#29
(Original post by Crumpet1)
Is categorically NOT the same as



You need to listen to your boyfriend's appreciation, not look at pornstars (who, as said above have probably had surgery anyway). They are not natural and you shouldn't use them as a measure.

What would you say to your boyfriend if he was contemplating surgery because he isn't hung like a pornstar?
He actually is quite insecure about various things about his body. Of course I do everything I can to try and make him feel better about it, but I know I can only do and say so much. I can empathise because I know what it's like to be insecure about a part of your body even when you know it's really not that big of a deal, and your partner loves you regardless.
I am realistic, and I've thought over it a lot. I know a huge proportion of porn stars will have had surgery. I'm not 100% decided yet but it's an option, and not one I'll rush in to if I do go for it! For one thing it's not cheap!
0
MiaTheDoggo
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#30
Report 1 year ago
#30
i have long labia to and yes it’s a same insecurity but i try not to worry about it 😂 lol i just go on sites like these to tell myself it’s normal
0
jimmyjiggy
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#31
Report 1 year ago
#31
I have to reply here for anyone else concerned. After a few long term partners with shorter labia, my girlfriend has long labia and i absolutely love them! Making love feels wonderful and I love playing with them in foreplay (if you get my point? ahem).Regardless of whatever size labia, embrace them as they are perfect for you.
0
Tessakramerlol
Badges: 1
Rep:
?
#32
Report 1 year ago
#32
I have it too I’m a teenage girl and I feel like it’s been eating from the inside I can’t change in front of my friend I’m too scared and I’m even worried to tell my own mother... but I’m here for you
0
Anonymous #2
#33
Report 10 months ago
#33
(Original post by Yikesnodont1)
I have really noticably long labia and its a HUGE insecurity of mine and I really, for obvious reasons, don't want to ask my friends if they also have them in case they dont.

They don't tuck in like a pornstars and just hang, physically not pretty. Other than that I'm in shape and athletic so I'm mostly comfortable with my body. Sorry if this is tmi but this has been on my mind as of late.

Btw do guys care?
Love yourself.
0
Anonymous #3
#34
Report 10 months ago
#34
(Original post by Anonymous)
Love yourself.
Iv got the same thing I’m very young and don’t understand how to change it. Ugh
0
Anonymous #2
#35
Report 10 months ago
#35
(Original post by Anonymous)
Iv got the same thing I’m very young and don’t understand how to change it. Ugh
I'd like to give you the same advice I gave to the other girl: Love yourself - indeed you do not create your body so there are probably some aspects you would like to see altered, but once you alter yourself you are no longer you... imperfections (and perfections) make you who you are.
0
Anonymous #3
#36
Report 10 months ago
#36
(Original post by Anonymous)
I'd like to give you the same advice I gave to the other girl: Love yourself - indeed you do not create your body so there are probably some aspects you would like to see altered, but once you alter yourself you are no longer you... imperfections (and perfections) make you who you are.
Thank you but what if Like when am older my bf will be like nah that’s weird because iv read through these and most men don’t like it
0
Anonymous #3
#37
Report 10 months ago
#37
(Original post by Tessakramerlol)
I have it too I’m a teenage girl and I feel like it’s been eating from the inside I can’t change in front of my friend I’m too scared and I’m even worried to tell my own mother... but I’m here for you
Same
0
Anonymous #2
#38
Report 10 months ago
#38
(Original post by Anonymous)
Thank you but what if Like when am older my bf will be like nah that’s weird because iv read through these and most men don’t like it
Love is blind to imperfections - a partner who loves you, will not care. As long as he loves you for who you are, you will not need to worry.

You are readin opinions of preference, I am 80% sure none of these people will be your future lover. Boys have different preferences so do not fear because of their preferences.
1
dancehead
Badges: 9
Rep:
?
#39
Report 10 months ago
#39
How many times can I say there really isn't an issue, most men either like them long or don't care either way. Surgery? Why would you do that to yourself when you are perfectly normal healthy looking. It's mutilation! They only people who win there is the surgeon who runs offf with your money and you are missing part of you forever.
0
Drewski
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#40
Report 8 months ago
#40
(Original post by LabiaMinoraLover)
You can message me on Kik under this same username for info, proof of how desired and sought after these feminine feature are. About 1/4 of women have them, like fuller lips on our mouth. You girls should know, there are chat groups, blogs, websites dedicated to labia positivity in general and larger labia specifically. Tumblr used to be a good resource. Would be great if there were a dating site for finding a girl who has them...
The thread is 2+ years old. Stop being a colossal creep and pervert.
0
X
new posts
Back
to top
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

With no certainty that exams next year will take place, how does this make you feel?

More motivated (84)
31.58%
Less motivated (182)
68.42%

Watched Threads

View All
Latest
My Feed