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Poll: Would you forgive Someone if they Cheated on you?
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Would you?

I was implicated in an affair which I had no idea about and long story short the guy was playing both of us at the same time. She's still with him, even though he's been hiding the fact that he'd been seeing me for about 6 months. I forgive him because I'm a really forgiving person and I couldn't hold a grudge if I tried.

But cheating is not okay. At all. But if you cared about someone would you forgive them for cheating if they were sincerely sorry?
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(Original post by Thrillanthropist)
Would you?

I was implicated in an affair which I had no idea about and long story short the guy was playing both of us at the same time. She's still with him, even though he's been hiding the fact that he'd been seeing me for about 6 months. I forgive him because I'm a really forgiving person and I couldn't hold a grudge if I tried.

But cheating is not okay. At all. But if you cared about someone would you forgive them for cheating if they were sincerely sorry?
Nope. Because if they cheat once and get away with it, they'll think they can do it again.
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No. How do I know he's not going to do it again?
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No. I wouldn't forgive my partner if he ever cheated, especially now that he is my husband took a vow to be faithful to me as I have to him.
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Depends on the extent of 'cheating'. I could probably forgive a kiss, if I knew it was a genuine mistake and didn't mean anything; it would definitely take some time though. Anything other than that, no.
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I would forgive it (in time), but a second chance would not be given. It's a conscious decision to go out of your way to cheat on your partner... It's an act of selfishness and means you're not considering your partner's feelings at all.

It's not hard to remain loyal, especially if you love and care for the person you're with.
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I think it's generally going to be a "no" from everyone on TSR.
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(Original post by Thrillanthropist)
Would you?

I was implicated in an affair which I had no idea about and long story short the guy was playing both of us at the same time. She's still with him, even though he's been hiding the fact that he'd been seeing me for about 6 months. I forgive him because I'm a really forgiving person and I couldn't hold a grudge if I tried.

But cheating is not okay. At all. But if you cared about someone would you forgive them for cheating if they were sincerely sorry?
I wouldn't be able to, would make me question everything
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(Original post by (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ)
I think it's generally going to be a "no" from everyone on TSR.
Why do you think that?
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(Original post by Thrillanthropist)
Why do you think that?
Just look at the relationship forum threads based around someone cheating and you'll understand why.
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I probably wouldn't hold a grudge forever but I would certainly end the relationship.
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It's a breach of trust, I wouldn't be able to stay with them.
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Catelyn forgave Eddard.
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I would forgive him but I wouldn't give a second chance
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cheating is betrayal and nobody gets the opportunity to betray me twice
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Don't cheat on me but I'm a hypocrite :sexface:

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It depends on the scenario. If they're drunk and kiss somebody, but talk to that person when they're sober to confirm that it was a mistake and are honest with me also, I could let that slide. But I couldn't forgive it if they did it again, or if they slept with someone else.
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I did. It was a big mistake; I've had trust issues ever since and as a result, our relationship fell apart.
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If my partner is someone whom i've known for ages and is just someone that i really care about, then yes i would forgive him. Would i trust him again? Well, NOT WITH MY FEELINGS but other than that yeah sure. You can break a glass and try to glue all the pieces together, but you'll still see where all the cracks are.
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No. I might not be the best person in the world but I'm still valuable and deserve to be treated nicely. Cheating is an option, doesn't matter if they were drunk, if they regret it after. Cheating can destroy a person. You will literally go insane with the tiniest things. I've been cheated before, I pretended I didn't know, a lot of people warned me but since my ex denied I would pretend to believe him. It was the worse thing ever.
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