I'm 17, he's 18. I haven't seen him for about 8 years, I saw him yesterday at a family event. His parents told him I was gay during the event (in usual family chat, my dad told them). He came up to me near the end and asked if it was true and I said yes, he said he was bicurious and wanted to do stuff with a guy (he never has before) and gave me his number. If he hadn't come up to me I would have come up to him and asked for it without knowing he was bicurious, to chance it.
We've been texting today, he's really up for having sex with me, he's quite hot. He said he wants to do it with a guy before he starts uni, I live in London and he's going to a London uni and said if he likes it he'd want to do it with me again, a lot. He wants to meet tomorrow, should I?
I really wouldn't advise it.
You might not see it as a problem but I'm pretty certain your family would. If as you say your already cause for family chat then this will just add more problems.
i suppose if its consensual...but might be weird if other family members find out
Why do you need permission from us?
Big no no.
If the family finds out, there'll be some.... awkward family gatherings, to say the least. Just because your cousin is handsome doesn't mean you should be having sex with him.
And, all things aside, it's your cousin. Aren't you slightly weirded out by the fact that you're having relations with a relative? Even if you aren't, I know your other family members will be.
Do you have any siblings? Would you want their children sleeping with yours? If the answers no, then don't do it. How will your parents feel about a nephew having sex with their son?
Go for it. It'll be a bit of family banter.
do it, just dont ever tell family.
you'll be doing him a favour by helping him discover his sexuality and you also get laid