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Original post by AMurray817
I always fee like I have no friends, although I hang around with a group of people during school, I rarely get invited to do stuff outside of school. Even in school I feel awful, putting up with abuse (calling me fat but I'm not really thag big, punching/kicking etc.). It truly is awful. I hate going to any parties as my friend cirlce isn't very wide and I feel like a tag-along if I do attend and I shouldn't be there. I don't know where I belong and it is beginning to feel like I have no friends.


Now your just being a sissy about this. I mean i can totally relate with hanging out with people but never getting invited to there parties or get togethers at the shisha lounge. I see all this sh*t on snapchat but i don't complain. I even let man who owe me 15£ just pay as deposit and not pay anymore. (people know that i'm poor but a kind hearted guy, so they dont mess with me/bother me)

Honestly at this point, to counteract the name calling; you should go gym or start doing martial arts = abs/visible muscles.
Original post by AMurray817
It's pretty much the same. But I wouldn't like to spend frees and break/lunch times alone.


Hmm let me give you some advice since I've dealt with this sort of stuff for a long time. To get where I am coming from however you must know a little about me and why I am telling you this.

I am not originally from here, I came when I was 7. I didn't speak a word of English at the time and I had groups of people in my school make fun of me (students and teachers) and ostracizing me from every friendship group because I was different . To make it worst in my first year I was tied up with a skipping rope by a boy on that playground and smashed against the concrete. It broke my bone all the way to my shoulder. But he never apologized for it and tried running away from the scene because he knew he would get in trouble. It took 5 years before I had someone that was willing to be friends with me, and that was in secondary. Since I was shy at first I wasn't taken as seriously in the friendship group. You find though in sixth form that if you are more outspoken, people will not make fun of you as much. Especially if you confront them. I had a friend of mine that was gossiped about by this girl that was sitting behind her. My friend ended up calling her out in front of the class and called her rude and cowardly. Let me tell you that girl was never seen near her again :biggrin:. You won't get bullied more, quite the opposite.
If they make fun of you lets say for you weight, then simply say ''My do you feel the need to comment on my body all the time?, I don't like being called out to hide any of your own insecurities with nasty comments. You coward. '' Then they'll leave you alone.
Friends-wise though, if you see someone you have something in common with, simply approach them, you'll find that that's much easier than waiting for someone to invite you somewhere when they probably don't care much to begin with. You'll find them with time. Trust me :wink:
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Original post by Jang Gwangnam
Now your just being a sissy about this. I mean i can totally relate with hanging out with people but never getting invited to there parties or get togethers at the shisha lounge. I see all this sh*t on snapchat but i don't complain. I even let man who owe me 15£ just pay as deposit and not pay anymore. (people know that i'm poor but a kind hearted guy, so they dont mess with me/bother me)

Honestly at this point, to counteract the name calling; you should go gym or start doing martial arts = abs/visible muscles.

I've tried the gym and I don't like it. Not wasting time and money on something I dislike
Original post by AMurray817
I've tried the gym and I don't like it. Not wasting time and money on something I dislike


. Pain is Gain
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
You sissy, if everyone went and didn't do what they disliked - then we'd have a lot more retards in today's world. Pain is Gain, suck it up like the man you're suppose to be.


You're not getting what I'm saying. I'm not spending £30 per month on an activity I dislike, would rather go onto a bike for free.
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Original post by AMurray817
I always fee like I have no friends, although I hang around with a group of people during school, I rarely get invited to do stuff outside of school. Even in school I feel awful, putting up with abuse (calling me fat but I'm not really thag big, punching/kicking etc.). It truly is awful. I hate going to any parties as my friend cirlce isn't very wide and I feel like a tag-along if I do attend and I shouldn't be there. I don't know where I belong and it is beginning to feel like I have no friends.


Hi please have a read of this site which was given to me, it maybe very useful to you for the bullying. www.kickbully.com
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
You sissy, if everyone went and didn't do what they disliked - then we'd have a lot more retards in today's world. Pain is Gain, suck it up like the man you're suppose to be.


Trying to give to give him some tough :dumbells: words of encouragement? :gigg:
Original post by Den987
Trying to give to give him some tough :dumbells: words of encouragement? :gigg:


I don't see his point to be honest
Original post by AMurray817
You're not getting what I'm saying. I'm not spending £30 per month on an activity I dislike, would rather go onto a bike for free.


What's dislikable about gym? It has equipment that trains the whole body.
Original post by AMurray817
You're not getting what I'm saying. I'm not spending £30 per month on an activity I dislike, would rather go onto a bike for free.


That works too :biggrin:. It depends though if you want to loose weight or gain muscle. Meh there's always press-ups for that I guess and they're free.
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
What's dislikable about gym? It has equipment that trains the whole body.


I don't enjoy going.
Original post by Den987
That works too :biggrin:. It depends though if you want to loose weight or gain muscle. Meh there's always press-ups for that I guess and they're free.


I wouldn't mind loosing a little bit, 10 lbs would do. Not arsed about gaining muscle
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
You really are hopeless.

You deserve the hate you are getting - for once i approve the actions of the bullies.

How's that? Cause dislike an activity you enjoy?
Original post by Anonymous
I was actually in a similar place too but I've just started uni so decided to try socialise more. It might sound a bit sad but I googled and found some articles about how to mingle at clubs/parties etc, went out last night and had a sick time, might be worth a look?


Could you send me those???
Original post by AMurray817
How's that? Cause dislike an activity you enjoy?


You're not willing to change yourself to stop your own bullying
Original post by AMurray817
I wouldn't mind loosing a little bit, 10 lbs would do. Not arsed about gaining muscle


Then the bike is absolutely right. I have a gym membership so I'm telling you that if you just want to loose 10lbs there's no point going there. You're just gonna end up using the bike/treadmill anyway :s-smilie:.
Though I think what he is trying to say is the whole gym has a very wide range of equipment. So you could loose weight and gain muscle at the same time. But as you know it cost, less as a student but even so. If you want a full body work-out in the future then that's your choice, but right now you seem to be doing good. Plus you also have A-levels to think about.
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
You're not willing to change yourself to stop your own bullying


Did I say I don't want to do exercise? I said I don't like the gym. I never have. I even mentioned I wouldn't mind going on a bike as I had earlier today. *******
Original post by Den987
Then the bike is absolutely right. I have a gym membership so I'm telling you that if you just want to loose 10lbs there's no point going there. You're just gonna end up using the bike/treadmill anyway :s-smilie:.
Though I think what he is trying to say is the whole gym has a very wide range of equipment. So you could loose weight and gain muscle at the same time. But as you know it cost, less as a student but even so. If you want a full body work-out in the future then that's your choice, but right now you seem to be doing good. Plus you also have A-levels to think about.


I've not got a job to pay for a membership, and I'd rather save for driving lessons/ a car and insurance when the day cones
Original post by Jang Gwangnam
You really are hopeless.

You deserve the hate you are getting - for once i approve the actions of the bullies.


I understand you enjoy trolling and stuff (the attention, replies etc.), but how can you not pity a guy out here clearly distressed and on top of that you come and give him a piece of your life, ik this place is a joke for you but kids come out here for real help and advice and they actually take what they receive here.

Oh and btw you're Reported.
Original post by j_nikolas879
I understand you enjoy trolling and stuff (the attention, replies etc.), but how can you not pity a guy out here clearly distressed and on top of that you come and give him a piece of your life, ik this place is a joke for you but kids come out here for real help and advice and they actually take what they receive here.

Oh and btw you're Reported.


Thanks, glad other people can see he's a ****

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