Most of my points are not absolute requisites, but would be ideal.
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1 - Something different about him - I would like to be with somebody who has a sharp intellect and who I can engage with in any kind of conversation, but also somebody who has an unconventional outlook on life and somebody I can learn from.
2 - Somebody who is down to earth and who I can relax and have a laugh with. I guess a characteristic that would go hand in hand with that is being trustworthy and not being too secretive, so I could feel relaxed and safe with them.
3 - Physically speaking I seem to like Asiatic features on white men, e.g. dark or black eyes (but deep blue is also nice), and I tend to like them quite skinny and just a bit taller than me, I don't tend to be attracted to people who are too masculine looking.
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1 - Narrow mindedness - I hate people who cannot attempt to think outside their own taught perception of reality, or lazily import their own opinions from the norm or the nebulous 'they'.
2 - Those that can only talk about themselves and manipulate the conversation so all that I can say is "yes" or "no" and tends to be a monologue of them wanting me to see their point of view - I prefer a conversation.
3 - Arrogance - those that think that only their way is the right way, trying to dominate themselves in a relationship.
Having said all this, it is also about what he wants, so the final most important thing is somebody who finds the things about me attractive.