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Top and bottom three features in a guy?

Questions for girls:

What are the top three features you want in a guy?

What are the least wanted three features in a guy?

Rank them if you can.
Top three is
1, 2, 3
1 is most liked
2 second most etc


Bottom three is also 1, 2, 3
1. Most disliked
2. second most disliked etc

Some explanation would also be good.

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Top:
1) Exceptional blue eyes: I have strange eyes that change colour through-out the year but never turn blue.
2) Toned biceps: not muscley just nice and toned
3) Nice smile: shows they approachable

1) Dirty teeth : enough said
2) Mono-brows: a nice grooming shows they care about themselves
3) Double chins: don't know why they freak me out especially on thin guys
Reply 2
Dream_Catcher
Top:
1) Exceptional blue eyes: I have strange eyes that change colour through-out the year but never turn blue.
2) Toned biceps: not muscley just nice and toned
3) Nice smile: shows they approachable

1) Dirty teeth : enough said
2) Mono-brows: a nice grooming shows they care about themselves
3) Double chins: don't know why they freak me out especially on thin guys


I suspect that you mean 'cleft' rather than 'double'.
Profesh
I suspect that you mean 'cleft' rather than 'double'.


Well Looking at that I don't like them also but no I did mean a double chin: excessive skin around the chin.
Reply 4
Top:
1) ability to make me laugh
2) deep, sexy eyes
3) understanding

Dream_Catcher
1) Dirty teeth : enough said

:ditto: + general bad hygiene
2) arrogance
3) um...bad in bed?
what do you mean by deep, sexy eyes?
Reply 6
Can guys post their features and then use this as a dating agency...? :p:
Reply 7
like you can look into them, and feel like you can connect. deep blue eyes are to die for. and sexy -like that twinkle in someones eye when they glance at you and smile..

*dreams*
Reply 8
onehitwonder
what do you mean by deep, sexy eyes?


Like a surfer's eyes?

Does that mean people with small eyes automatically don't fit into this discription?
Reply 9
Germi
Like a surfer's eyes?

Does that mean people with small eyes automatically don't fit into this discription?


just because eyes are small doesn't mean they can't be deep and sexy...i don't know why they couldn't be.
louiise
like you can look into them, and feel like you can connect. deep blue eyes are to die for. and sexy -like that twinkle in someones eye when they glance at you and smile..

*dreams*



That's exactly what I mean't with "Exceptional blue eyes". I think they have that special something in them that just makes me melt.
Top:
1. Sense of humour
2. Similar upbringing to mine
3. Similar goals in life

Bottom:
1. Stuck up
2. Too sensitive
3. Fakeness
Reply 12
In terms of physical features -

Top (not in order, I love all 3!)
1. Sexy eyes
2. Gorgeous hair
3. Lovely smile

Bottom
1. Sweat - whether it be sweaty hands or greasy hair, I just hate that!
2. Monobrow
3. Acne (I know this isn't their fault, but I can't stand it!)
Reply 13
Top:

1. The ability to hold a conversation about something other than how drunk they got last night. Conversations involve listening as well as responding.
2. Sense of humour that agrees with my own. We should be able to make each other smile :smile:
3. I feel like I should enter something about looks, but how can I define what I find attractive in so many different men with one number? Nice hair is a plus, but some guys look better shaved. Toned arms/abs/legs are hot, but by no means essential. Eyes/smiles/posture/whatever can be attractive, but how would I even go about describing what makes them so? Generally, there just has to be some kind of physical attraction. What causes it depends upon the person.


Bottom:

1. Bigotry.
2. Poor hygiene - greasiness, smelliness, oddly coloured teeth, etc...kind of deal-breakers. I mean, come on, if you're trying to win my affection, surely a 10 minute shower wouldn't have hurt?
3. Either obsessiveness or complete lack of care in fashion. I expect a guy's clothes to fit decently - a bad fitting pair of trousers can totally turn me off - but if you own 2X the amount of clothing and/or shoes I do, colour-coordinate your shoes with your shirts and I dunno, go out of your way to iron everything and do your hair all fancy...you're probably not the guy for me. That's just not who I am, and it would annoy me to no end.
Reply 14
someone's fussy :p:
Reply 15
top
1.kind/polite- speaks for itself...
2.appearance especially a nice smile- smiling is always good
3.well spoken/intelligence- i'm not into the whole 'slang' i don't even know how to speak my own language type thing

bottom
1. Arrogance- i cant stand arrogant people.
2. Dirty- nobody likes to clean up after other peoples mess and everyone has a shower and a toothbrush- so use them
3. weirdness- i know everybody is different but some peple are just plain 'odd'
Reply 16
Most of my points are not absolute requisites, but would be ideal.

+ve
1 - Something different about him - I would like to be with somebody who has a sharp intellect and who I can engage with in any kind of conversation, but also somebody who has an unconventional outlook on life and somebody I can learn from.
2 - Somebody who is down to earth and who I can relax and have a laugh with. I guess a characteristic that would go hand in hand with that is being trustworthy and not being too secretive, so I could feel relaxed and safe with them.
3 - Physically speaking I seem to like Asiatic features on white men, e.g. dark or black eyes (but deep blue is also nice), and I tend to like them quite skinny and just a bit taller than me, I don't tend to be attracted to people who are too masculine looking.

-ve
1 - Narrow mindedness - I hate people who cannot attempt to think outside their own taught perception of reality, or lazily import their own opinions from the norm or the nebulous 'they'.
2 - Those that can only talk about themselves and manipulate the conversation so all that I can say is "yes" or "no" and tends to be a monologue of them wanting me to see their point of view - I prefer a conversation.
3 - Arrogance - those that think that only their way is the right way, trying to dominate themselves in a relationship.

Having said all this, it is also about what he wants, so the final most important thing is somebody who finds the things about me attractive.
Reply 17
1.nice eyes (deep and dark),and nice hair (some sort of style not too short,but not a pony tail dnt get me wrong) these go together for me.

2.tall i like a nice tall guy...however not a giant im 5ft6 so no one shorter than 5'9 and not taller than 6ft2/3

3.and a nice accent always goes down really well with me something nice and cute...

things i dont like...

1.skinny guys..thats not good for me i like a nice guy with meat and cuddley, not completely muscley though.

2. guys with bad dress sense, or really skanky shoes/trainers. its doesnt take to minutes to think about what your wearing.

3.chavvy guys...down to attitude, dress sense, way they talk etc...
Dream_Catcher
Top:
1) Exceptional blue eyes: I have strange eyes that change colour through-out the year but never turn blue.


That rules me out...awesome!
Ink

3. Either obsessiveness or complete lack of care in fashion. I expect a guy's clothes to fit decently - a bad fitting pair of trousers can totally turn me off - but if you own 2X the amount of clothing and/or shoes I do, colour-coordinate your shoes with your shirts and I dunno, go out of your way to iron everything and do your hair all fancy...you're probably not the guy for me. That's just not who I am, and it would annoy me to no end.


lmao, you do know that can easily be corrected.