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    Ive been dating my bf for 3 months now and we've only had sex once. both our parents are strict christians and the only time we had sex was when my parents went on holiday. that's the only time we can have sex. i am just insecure that he is frustrated and might get bored of not having sex that often. he insists that he is fine with how often we have sex but he keeps trying to suggest opportunities to do it.

    he offered to book a hotel room but that's still very difficult because my parents want me to come home before 9pm. I am 19 and my bf is 21.

    should I just take his word for it and assume he's fine with the frequency of sex? I don't want to lose him because of this
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    why can't you have sex when your parents are home

    do ya'll share a room or something?
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    There are some lovely public toilets ya know
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    Climb into a bush and give him your bush :mmm:
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    **** outside. Find a nice spot and its really not bad
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive been dating my bf for 3 months now and we've only had sex once. both our parents are strict christians and the only time we had sex was when my parents went on holiday. that's the only time we can have sex. i am just insecure that he is frustrated and might get bored of not having sex that often. he insists that he is fine with how often we have sex but he keeps trying to suggest opportunities to do it.

    he offered to book a hotel room but that's still very difficult because my parents want me to come home before 9pm. I am 19 and my bf is 21.

    should I just take his word for it and assume he's fine with the frequency of sex? I don't want to lose him because of this
    I doubt he’s happy with the frequency at all, however if he likes you that much he shouldn’t stray.

    I’d question why neither of you has rented a place though given your ages assuming neither of you are at uni as you could obviously do the deed there
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    Have you tried oral sex or a handjob for him to fill the long periods of no sex.
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    (Original post by Lemon Haze)
    That's some white people s**t.
    I can't believe it was even suggested tbh.
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    On your 30 minute lunch break?
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    Damn it, TSR. Ping WoodyMKC

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    (Original post by paul514)
    I doubt he’s happy with the frequency at all, however if he likes you that much he shouldn’t stray.

    I’d question why neither of you has rented a place though given your ages assuming neither of you are at uni as you could obviously do the deed there
    He says he loves me a lot so there's that

    We are both living at home for uni.
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    I think that if you two are happy together you should think about renting out a place together not to be under your parents control anymore. You're 19 and you're old enough to look after yourself
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    Well since he says hes okay with it then id take his word.If you are really worried about it though maybe try doing it somewhere away from your house?You dont have to have sex at night since you have to be home by 9pm so why dont you try his house?Maybe some public toilets?Or go on a saturday mid-day to a hotel?
    All the best
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    Do you all live in one house?
    If not, could you not do it at his?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive been dating my bf for 3 months now and we've only had sex once. both our parents are strict christians and the only time we had sex was when my parents went on holiday. that's the only time we can have sex. i am just insecure that he is frustrated and might get bored of not having sex that often. he insists that he is fine with how often we have sex but he keeps trying to suggest opportunities to do it.

    he offered to book a hotel room but that's still very difficult because my parents want me to come home before 9pm. I am 19 and my bf is 21.

    should I just take his word for it and assume he's fine with the frequency of sex? I don't want to lose him because of this
    Rent a day time hotel and you're sorted.

    https://www.dayuse.co.uk/?gclid=EAIa...SAAEgK8a_D_BwE
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    You little children don't even know what sex is. Jesus...
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    You're 19 and your parents want you home by 9.... sack those parents off, jesus christ how can you live like that
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    OP of your parents were not so strict would be okay with going to a hotel overnight ?
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    Look at this from your parents' point of view. They are so uptight they probably find it impossible to have sex when YOU are in the house. 19 years they have been going without.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Rent a day time hotel and you're sorted.

    https://www.dayuse.co.uk/?gclid=EAIa...SAAEgK8a_D_BwE
    Thanks this is a great idea. everyone else is unhelpful smh I forgot this was tsr
 
 
 
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