Hi,
I just stumbled across this thread whilst looking for something else, but thought I'd add my ten penneth as it may help someone.
I was born in 1960 and when entering the education system was profoundly 'dyslexic'. I would frequently write in mirror-writing, I couldn't spell at all and my reading ability was extremely poor. Every time I wrote a word I'd come up with a different spelling for that same word. This drove my teachers insane! Given that dyslexia wasn't recognised, back then, as a disability, I was just handed out as many punishments as my teachers could come up with. Of course, none worked!
In order to survive, I developed coping mechanisms, one of which was daydreaming. When daydreaming, I was 'hidden in plain view', yet I'd escaped to my own fantasy world, a world in which I could be creative, invent things and a world which had hopes and possibilities. This daydreaming got me though my school years, but also developed my creativity and ability to apply alternative thinking to situations that had others stumped.
Once outside of education I've been very successful. I've used work-arounds to overcome the things with which I struggled the most. I also understand my limitations. Therefore, I don't waste my time trying to learn in conventional ways, but, translate information into patterns and things I can better relate to. This way I'm not held back very much at all. I've actually spent much of my professional life giving technical advice to academics who have been utterly unaware of my 'disability'.
Recently, I even did the previously 'unthinkable' and wrote a book! It's a short story called "Escape to Indrieg", which I've self published on Amazon. Its about my other world, the world of my daydreams. For me, and those around me, who know me and my background, it's a real triumph! It shows that nothing is impossible or out of reach.
So, I thought I'd post this, to encourage those of you who may be struggling now - just know that you can beat this, and that it can give you a different angle, and indeed a competitive 'advantage!'