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Kissed on cheek when said no... is it assault? Watch

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    Basically the title
    I specically said no to him and that it can't happen, but he still did it.
    Is this assault? Should i tell someone?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically the title
    I specically said no to him and that it can't happen, but he still did it.
    Is this assault? Should i tell someone?
    Hey, is this dude a stranger or someone you know? Cuz I'm guessing if its someone you know, then he thought that he was close enough to go over your word, most probably to check if it makes you feel better or simply for the fun of it.
    I think it mostly depends on what your status is with him, how close you are and how he feels about you.
    Hope this helps.....
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    Did he penetrate your cheeks when kissing you?
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    (Original post by I hate money)
    Did he penetrate your cheeks when kissing you?
    By penetrate, do you mean forceful? Or something else?
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    (Original post by Thachi3)
    By penetrate, do you mean forceful? Or something else?
    I mean use his willy.
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    (Original post by Thachi3)
    Hey, is this dude a stranger or someone you know? Cuz I'm guessing if its someone you know, then he thought that he was close enough to go over your word, most probably to check if it makes you feel better or simply for the fun of it.
    I think it mostly depends on what your status is with him, how close you are and how he feels about you.
    Hope this helps.....
    He is just a friend... well was. Like he has been wanting to try something with me for a while... Like a year
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    It's just a kiss, if he did it forcefully then it's assault but if you were just standing there and he just kissed you then how is that assault?
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    (Original post by I hate money)
    I mean use his willy.
    I said assault that is a bigger version than sexual assault
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    (Original post by I hate money)
    I mean use his willy.
    I'll be honest and say that wasn't the reply I was expecting
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    Its not assualt. Did that kiss make you bleed or in pain? No, so not assault
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    (Original post by The RAR)
    It's just a kiss, if he did it forcefully then it's assault but if you were just standing there and he just kissed you then how is that assault?
    I was looking at my phone he moved in then I went to move away but was too slow... so you tell me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I said assault that is a bigger version than sexual assault
    No it's not assault get over yourself.
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      He is just a friend... well was. Like he has been wanting to try something with me for a while... Like a year
      It's a kiss on the cheek. A lot of people (especially older generations and old-fashioned weirdos like me) give a kiss on the cheek as a polite, personal, but still platonic gesture of affection or greeting.
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      He is just a friend... well was. Like he has been wanting to try something with me for a while... Like a year
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      Then, I'm going with a definite not assault, simply cuz he knows you.
      To make things simpler for you, why not just go straight to him and ask why he did it?
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      Depends how you look at it. I shouldn't let it bother you assault can be a lot worse.
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      (Original post by Anonymous)
      I was looking at my phone he moved in then I went to move away but was too slow... so you tell me
      Then meh...just get over it, it's just a kiss, is not like he french kissed you or anything.
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      Is this what this world has come to??? Christ almighty. :lol:
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      Women these days.
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      Tomorrow on TSR: "Friend gave me a tight goodbye hug without my permission, was it rape?"
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      http://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/l_to_o/o...he_person/#a02

      Based on these descriptions of the different kinds of assaults someone can be prosecuted for, you were not assaulted. Silly questions like these trivialises the seriousness of assault crimes as well as the pain and trauma victims suffer.
     
     
     
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