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    I'm the same just I'm a guy. I guess something will happen eventually. In the meantime you could message me if you needed to talk.
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    (Original post by Amidenia)
    Hi. I'm 17, female and I've never had a committed relationship. I feel really insecure about it because all my friends are in relationships and also that I am not as skinny as I would like maybe that's not appealing to guys idk. Normally I'm ok about it but in my final year of school and about to turn 18 it's really getting to me at the moment.
    Advice? Anything?
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    Date me then
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    (Original post by Amidenia)
    Hi. I'm 17, female and I've never had a committed relationship. I feel really insecure about it because all my friends are in relationships and also that I am not as skinny as I would like maybe that's not appealing to guys idk. Normally I'm ok about it but in my final year of school and about to turn 18 it's really getting to me at the moment.
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    Please xx
    Don't define your security/insecurity by being in a relationship.

    Also you can be "not skinny" and still attractive.

    My advice is just relax and carry on being yourself, you'll find someone when the time's right. Until then, concentrate on being yourself :hugs:
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    (Original post by Amidenia)
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    aw i'm sorry to hear that , i'm always free to talk if you want some company buddy
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    You're only 17, you don't *need* a relationship at your age. Just work on yourself and get new hobbies and you'll meet new people.
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    You're 17 FFS
    Not 39
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    Same thing here man.
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    Date me then
    don't worry I'm exactly the same - never done a thing with a guy (go to a girls school sadly).
    But I have a lot of guy friends though from sports (just feel like they see me as a younger sister)
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    you don't need an other to complete you-you are your own person
    you probably only feel like that because everyone around you are in relationships, don't succumb to ''peer pressure''
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    Don't worry, you're 17.

    You've got plenty of time, trust me.

    Relax, go with the flow, do things that make you happy, partake in hobbies, follow your dreams.

    There's many ways to meet someone: online dating, speed dating, joining clubs that interest you, through college/uni, through your network/social circle, through work, flirting with people.

    Good luck
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    (Original post by Amidenia)
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    Same
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    If it makes you feel better, I can start a committed relationship with you and instantly break up with you.

    But I get to be the dumper and you get to be the dumpee. Then you can be sad because you just got out of a committed relationship!
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    You are only 17. Focus on your studies and have a part time job to keep you busy. You should concentrate on having fun with family and friends and live in the moment. Try new things like different hobbies,travel and socialise. The best thing I did was travel and volunteered abroad I have learnt so much. I know sometimes you may feel you need to be in a relationship because everyone around you is in a relationship sometimes I feel like that too. But believe me you will look back at this moment in a few years and think why was I even bothered.
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    You're still a child. You don't NEED a relationship at that age you're still learning about life and yourself
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    (Original post by UWS)
    You're only 17, you don't *need* a relationship at your age. Just work on yourself and get new hobbies and you'll meet new people.

    This. ^
 
 
 
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