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    I've come to a realisation that I'm giving way too many sh*@ts about things & people that don't matter.
    The first half first year at uni I didn't care what so ever about people I wasn't close to.
    In the second half I got to know & speak to a lot more people in my year, but I found that I was getting too invested in them & their lives. I feel I care too much about what they're doing, who they're with, who they're speaking to etc. To be honest a lot of the relationships are plain hi-bye type and not close relationships.
    Earlier in first year I didn't care about anyone else but myself. I was focused on myself, my work & extra curricular activities and I desperately want to get that back.
    Anyone got any advice on how to stop giving a sh*@?
    Thnx
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    Don't try to stop caring, however limit yourself to the negative around you. Just do things that are distracting like sports or hanging out with more positive people.
 
 
 
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