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I'm always scared to make new friends? how do i get over this? watch

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    I'm not sure 'scared' is the right word, but I don't really have that many friends, and even though I feel like i want to have friends and better relationships with people, whenever I find myself getting close with someone I have a voice in the back of my head telling me to distance myself from them,to find a way to cut the conversation short or come up with an excuse as to why I can't hang out with them, which is strange because whenever im having a down day and I'm thinking about what I don't like about myself/my life,not having any close friends always springs to mind, but when I have the chance to I just have an instinct to hide away and distance myself from them before they get the wrong idea or something, does anyone else have/had this problem? how do i overcome it?
    • Political Ambassador

    Political Ambassador
    You walk up to people and talk to them. What's the worst that can happen?
    • Community Assistant

    Community Assistant
    I agree with the above, what's the worse that can happen?

    Who cares if one person ignores you, there are many and many who will be open and friendly with you.

    Become approachable, open, friendly, polite, charming etc.
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