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    I sit next to this boy and I really thought I liked him and was considering asking him out! Then he asked me!!! I don't know why but I'm finding it really hard to say yes. He has an amazing personality and I've known him for about a year and a quarter but isn't particular attractive. Why am I struggling so much to say yes?
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    I don't know. Maybe you're nervous you might end up doing something you regret? Might it be awkward if things don't work out? If I were you I think I might write down all the reasons I could possibly think of which would not make me want to go out with this person to try and crack the code. If not, you should take the plunge.
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    say yes and see how it goes
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    Think about the reasons you're unsure about saying yes. If possible, discuss some of these reasons with him (e.g. is it your first relationship, so are you nervous about what might happen, or is it a bit of a player?)

    I felt the same way when the guy I liked for ages asked me out. My main doubts were because my first relationship was pretty **** and lasted about a week, and also he was going to university the next year. Eventually I said yes, and a year later I still don't regret that decision.
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    Just say yes.
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    (Original post by Girl w/ problems)
    I sit next to this boy and I really thought I liked him and was considering asking him out! Then he asked me!!! I don't know why but I'm finding it really hard to say yes. He has an amazing personality and I've known him for about a year and a quarter but isn't particular attractive. Why am I struggling so much to say yes?
    Honestly you are really lucky though.
 
 
 
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