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    I sit next to this boy and I really thought I liked him and was considering asking him out.Then he asked me! Usually I can just say yes or no. I don't know why but I'm finding it really hard to say yes.?! He definitely has an amazing personality and I've known him for about a year and a quarter but isn't particular attractive. Why am I struggling so much to say yes?!
    I have had a lot of relationships for my age the longest lasting 3 years and the shortest lasting about 2 days. I have ended about 2/3 of them. Could that be affecting my answer?
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    tell him you wanna get to know him better as a close friend before making that decision
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    Is there a reason why you would ask him out, but not accept his 'offer' of a relationship?
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    If you're unsure about a realtionship at this moment, just be honest. Say you would rather stay as friends for a while and then you can judge if there's any foundations for a realtionship at a later date.
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    (Original post by bloodredbeat)
    Is there a reason why you would ask him out, but not accept his 'offer' of a relationship?
    I'm don't think so
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    (Original post by Boy help needed)
    URGENT HELP NEEDED!

    I sit next to this boy and I really thought I liked him and was considering asking him out.Then he asked me! Usually I can just say yes or no. I don't know why but I'm finding it really hard to say yes.?! He definitely has an amazing personality and I've known him for about a year and a quarter but isn't particular attractive. Why am I struggling so much to say yes?!
    I have had a lot of relationships for my age the longest lasting 3 years and the shortest lasting about 2 days. I have ended about 2/3 of them. Could that be affecting my answer?
    Finding him attractive is a really important aspect in a relationship, I know that sounds so vain and horrible but maybe that’s what’s stopping you from saying yes maybe he just isn’t the whole package? Maybe it might be good to go on the date or whatever and see how it goes, it could change your whole perspective! Hope this helps x
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    (Original post by Boy help needed)
    I'm don't think so
    Well then.
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    Just be honest with him (minus the attractiveness bit tho) he'll understand
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    Date first really get to know him. Just ash him to take it slow x
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    (Original post by Boy help needed)
    URGENT HELP NEEDED!

    I sit next to this boy and I really thought I liked him and was considering asking him out.Then he asked me! Usually I can just say yes or no. I don't know why but I'm finding it really hard to say yes.?! He definitely has an amazing personality and I've known him for about a year and a quarter but isn't particular attractive. Why am I struggling so much to say yes?!
    I have had a lot of relationships for my age the longest lasting 3 years and the shortest lasting about 2 days. I have ended about 2/3 of them. Could that be affecting my answer?
    Go on one casual date, maybe watching a horror movie or something. (Best type of movie to get to know someone and see if you match.)

    See where it goes and if it does not work out then go back to being friends and you will probably talk about it years later, jokingly.
 
 
 
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