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    Hi.

    A few years ago I got a full scholarship and I was supposed to study abroad but my family forced me to decline the scholarship. I was broken and really depressed. My sisters promised to help me pay for my studies if I decided to study in my hometown. If you agreed to take the money and study in your hometown, would you pay it back in the future?

    Honestly I don't feel very sorry for my sisters because they hurt me so much and I don't think I can ever forgive them for the psychological damage they caused me even if they pay me millions. I wish I could never see my family again, but regardless of what they did to me, do you think the money should be paid back to them? They gave me like £ 20k
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hi.

    A few years ago I got a full scholarship and I was supposed to study abroad but my family forced me to decline the scholarship. I was broken and really depressed. My sisters promised to help me pay for my studies if I decided to study in my hometown. If you agreed to take the money and study in your hometown, would you pay it back in the future?

    Honestly I don't feel very sorry for my sisters because they hurt me so much and I don't think I can ever forgive them for the psychological damage they caused me even if they pay me millions. I wish I could never see my family again, but regardless of what they did to me, do you think the money should be paid back to them? They gave me like £ 20k
    Why didn't they want you to go? That is pathetic, lemme guess its a asian family
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    (Original post by conc3pt)
    That is pathetic, lemme guess its a asian family
    This comment wasn't necessary.

    OP, ask your family if they offered you the money on the basis of you someday paying it back - only they will know.
 
 
 
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