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    This girl lives like just over an hour away by car btw. However, i would get the train.
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    As soon as you can or once you've felt you've talked enough to build up some rapport.
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    As soon as you can or once you've felt you've talked enough to build up some rapport.
    Hmm okay, i asked some girl i know and she said a couple of months..... i'm 17 btw.
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    Hmm okay, i asked some girl i know and she said a couple of months..... i'm 17 btw.
    A couple of months? It obviously doesn't sound like she is meeting for a date then.
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    I would wait at least 6 months before meeting with a guy who lives that close to me. But i'd have to really be enjoying talking to them and feel safe with the idea of meeting them.
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    A couple of months? It obviously doesn't sound like she is meeting for a date then.
    Hmm, i did think a few months was too much...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Hmm, i did think a few months was too much...
    Where did you meet her just out of interest? If it was a dating site, the sole purpose is to meet up as soon as possible so that's why I suggested it.
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    My partner and I met each other within about 2 weeks of talking (he lived about 20 minutes away), and we were both 16 at the time. We were comfortable enough to meet up, so it honestly just depends on the both of you.
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    Where did you meet her just out of interest? If it was a dating site, the sole purpose is to meet up as soon as possible so that's why I suggested it.
    On tsr xD
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    On tsr xD
    Oh dear. She'll probably see this thread :lol:
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    On a dating site you need to move pretty fast, as the girl is literally getting hundreds of men reaching out to her a week [no exaggeration]

    aim to meet her within 1 week of establishing first contact.

    aim to swap contact details within 6 to 10 message exchanges [I read some stats on okcupid which said most people exchange contact details within 6 to 10 messages on dating sites]

    don't be fooled into thinking you need to exchange like 100 messages and 2 mths before bringing up the subject of exchanging details. If a girl demands something like that on a dating site just next her unless you're really desperate and she's literally your only option, because more than likely a few weeks down the line of exchanges messages she'll get bored of you and flake ..and all that time and energy put in will be for nothing.

    if you've managed to get 6 or more message exchanges with a girl chances are there is some reasonable interest in you on her part.
    Most girls who answer an unsolicited mail stop replying after the first or second exchange [to those guys who have done online dating you know i'm not BS-ing on that..]

    If you meet her not on a dating site [but still online] you can afford to take things a little slower if you want as there is less competition and she's probably not getting 100's of guys bombarding her with interest every week..
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    On a dating site you need to move pretty fast, as the girl is literally getting hundreds of men reaching out to her a week [no exaggeration]
    ..
    Hehe.
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    Oh dear. She'll probably see this thread :lol:
    Naaaa she aint that active
 
 
 
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