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    I'm too shy to approach girls for some reason it is really bothering me, I do boxing but that still isn't helping me with my confidence, can anyone else give me some more advice for me to be relaxed when approaching girls?
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    Don't make it seem like a big deal in your head. If you do, you'll get nervous and back down from the idea.
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    (Original post by DrawTheLine)
    Don't make it seem like a big deal in your head. If you do, you'll get nervous and back down from the idea.
    How do I stop that though?
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    How do I stop that though?
    If you see a girl you like don't overthink what you want to happen. If you start thinking "what should I say am I wearing the right clothes will she like how I look and what I sound like oh no she isn't for me she'll say no" then you won't get anywhere. Take deep breaths and assume the best.
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    Are you in school/uni? If yes then what you can do is sit near girls in class and start of with something small like saying "hi" then just gradually build up a convo
 
 
 
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