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    My friend keeps saying my parents just let me stay over once a week or so. I'm sick to death of them; yet my friend will go out and stay till 5am. I just feel like she keeps chatting ****. Sick of one-way friendships where i'm constantly making all the effort with people.

    SORRY I AM NOT USUALLY LIKE THIS BUT IVE BEEN PATIENT FOR A WHILE NOW AND IVE JUST GOT PISSED OFF NOW.
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    (Original post by sesameseeds)
    My friend keeps saying my parents just let me stay over once a week or so. I'm sick to death of them; yet my friend will go out and stay till 5am. I just feel like she keeps chatting ****. Sick of one-way friendships where i'm constantly making all the effort with people.

    SORRY I AM NOT USUALLY LIKE THIS BUT IVE BEEN PATIENT FOR A WHILE NOW AND IVE JUST GOT PISSED OFF NOW.
    Drop her, care about someone who cares about you.
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    I didn't understand this. Maybe its the time of the night
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    Maybe, it’s because you can’t spell “friendship”?
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    Could you try rephrasing that because I absolutely can't understand what's going on
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    Agree with the above posters, no idea what you're going on about.
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    (Original post by sesameseeds)
    My friend keeps saying my parents just let me stay over once a week or so. I'm sick to death of them; yet my friend will go out and stay till 5am. I just feel like she keeps chatting ****. Sick of one-way friendships where i'm constantly making all the effort with people.

    SORRY I AM NOT USUALLY LIKE THIS BUT IVE BEEN PATIENT FOR A WHILE NOW AND IVE JUST GOT PISSED OFF NOW.
    I should hope that you're "usually" at least borderline-coherent, because this was about as intelligible as spaghetti.
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    Somewhere along the line I think these points got mixed together
    • Friend is a hypocrite, possibly?
    • Friend complains about only being allowed friends over once a week
    • Friend stays out til 5am despite complaining about only having friends over once a week
    • OP is tired of friend complaining about something, maybe the above points + severity?
    • Somewhere else I think OP tries to say they're tired of making effort with the friend when all OP's friend does is complain?


    idk man i analyse proteins not friendships
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    Honestly your friends should be people who don't stress you out or cause you to stress out. If they do then stop hanging out with them and find new friends. It's not that hard through uni or if your in college or even work, your always meeting new people and once you find you click with some people without putting any extra effort you know you should be around those people!
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    (Original post by sesameseeds)
    Sick of one-way friendships where i'm constantly making all the effort with people.
    Only bit I understood. Gonna work off that and say **** them off out of your life. Had friends like this in the past, decided one day I'm gonna stop getting hold of them to arrange things and see if they contacted me, and by the looks of it none of that group see each other anymore.
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    Find new friends OP
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    (Original post by sesameseeds)
    My friend keeps saying my parents just let me stay over once a week or so. I'm sick to death of them; yet my friend will go out and stay till 5am. I just feel like she keeps chatting ****. Sick of one-way friendships where i'm constantly making all the effort with people.

    SORRY I AM NOT USUALLY LIKE THIS BUT IVE BEEN PATIENT FOR A WHILE NOW AND IVE JUST GOT PISSED OFF NOW.
    You might find these video useful.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOaBCh5r2ZM
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BmtMtjHT4zA

    Take responsibility for your relationships. You have relationship that you deserve. They only act like that because you let me. My advice is to give yourself more respect as an individual and then subtly demand that of others.

    James x
 
 
 
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