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    I'm almost 21 and have only kissed three girls and have never been able to get a date.

    - Without sounding arrogant, I'm apparently a good looking guy. For example a girl at a party last week called me beautiful right out of the blue and I get my fair share of stares etc.

    - I have a lot of drive/ambition (I have an important sales job whilst also being a University student and I work long hours so that I can achieve my goals)

    - Deep down I'm quite confident

    - I live with three girls and they all seem to really enjoy my company, they say I'm funny, nice and actually normal unlike a lot of guys.

    So where am I going wrong???
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm almost 21 and have only kissed three girls and have never been able to get a date.

    - Without sounding arrogant, I'm apparently a good looking guy. For example a girl at a party last week called me beautiful right out of the blue and I get my fair share of stares etc.

    - I have a lot of drive/ambition (I have an important sales job whilst also being a University student and I work long hours so that I can achieve my goals)

    - Deep down I'm quite confident

    - I live with three girls and they all seem to really enjoy my company, they say I'm funny, nice and actually normal unlike a lot of guys.

    So where am I going wrong???
    You just need to take someone out on a date.
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    You gotta make the first move. Girls will give you signs, but they rely on the man to make the actual move and ask. Well most do at least. And make your intentions clear. You don't want to end up in the friend zone.
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    I have made the first move before several times with no success. I get girls numbers and then very quickly it goes downhill.

    Girls are just so confusing. One girl gave me her number a few weeks back and told me to come out clubbing with her. I couldn't make it so suggested meeting another day for a drink. I got no response.. Yet today when I updated my FB pic she liked it??
 
 
 
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