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    Before someone says it I know there's always a reason. I just can't find the root cause for this though. A bit of background story. Was hanging out with my groups of friends at uni 3 weeks ago. Then this random guy started to talk to us. He seemed like a nice guy but something was off about him, I just didn't really like him, his vibe annoyed me. He then started hanging out with us ever since. He is honestly a nice guy, offers to help you, gives you free stuff, etc. But lately he is been frickin suffocating me. Keeps calling me his best friend, asks me to hang out everyday, messages me 24/7... He is really clingy and kind of weird too. He once just randomly told me "I love you bro" and like yesterday he said "I dreamed about you last night"...like wtf. He is also really spoiled and pretty overemotional. Of course I am never mean to him or anything, but he really irritates me. I'm trying to figure out why.
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    Sounds like he lowkey fancies you :curious:
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    Does he act like this to your other friends too?
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    If I were you, I would talk to him about it and how you feel. If you are really uncomfortable, just tell him that you don't want to be friends. Either way, it;s best to tell him how you feel.
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    Does his mushroom tip get swole when he sees you? :holmes:
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Before someone says it I know there's always a reason. I just can't find the root cause for this though. A bit of background story. Was hanging out with my groups of friends at uni 3 weeks ago. Then this random guy started to talk to us. He seemed like a nice guy but something was off about him, I just didn't really like him, his vibe annoyed me. He then started hanging out with us ever since. He is honestly a nice guy, offers to help you, gives you free stuff, etc. But lately he is been frickin suffocating me. Keeps calling me his best friend, asks me to hang out everyday, messages me 24/7... He is really clingy and kind of weird too. He once just randomly told me "I love you bro" and like yesterday he said "I dreamed about you last night"...like wtf. He is also really spoiled and pretty overemotional. Of course I am never mean to him or anything, but he really irritates me. I'm trying to figure out why.
    If you are a dude, then the guy probably likes you and wants more with you.

    I dont want to talk out of line, but imagine if this was a chic that was all over your business? People will say that she fancies you.

    You should call the dude out to know what his deal is and then you proceed from there.
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    (Original post by Wikia)
    Sounds like he lowkey fancies you :curious:
    That's another thing that confuses me. He does and says so many things that are so damn feminine...He does have this gay vibe about him, but I can't say for sure. He sometimes mentioned having a crush on this celebrity girl but idk his behaviour is pretty strange. What should I do anyways? He's a nice person and is really kind, but I just wished he'd let me breath. He thinks we are like bestos and I have no idea why.
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    Sounds like he has a crush on you.
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    lmao y does this remind me of a girl in my sixth form??!/1/!

    lmao act dead around him and give him really short replies. He'll give up and run away and find someone else to cling onto.
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    (Original post by cheesecakelove)
    Does he act like this to your other friends too?
    No, he always low key tells me he doesn't give a **** about them and always calls them funny names and stuff. He obviously trusts me cause he told me that once he avoided one of our common friends, because he doesn't like to be around him
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    (Original post by Kevin Hodge)
    Does his mushroom tip get swole when he sees you? :holmes:
    Lmao, idk. I don't want to find out if it is tbh
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    Knock him out
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    (Original post by shameful_burrito)
    Lmao, idk. I don't want to find out if it is tbh
    MAYNE just tell him to FAWK OUT DA WHEY and give you some space. It’s really that simple.
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    (Original post by Dr Savage)
    Knock him out
    Here. Have this rep for making me lol IRL:toofunny:
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    maybe hes gay and fancies you?
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    (Original post by lmaooome)
    lmao y does this remind me of a girl in my sixth form??!/1/!

    lmao act dead around him and give him really short replies. He'll give up and run away and find someone else to cling onto.
    thats not nice
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    (Original post by toby80)
    If I were you, I would talk to him about it and how you feel. If you are really uncomfortable, just tell him that you don't want to be friends. Either way, it;s best to tell him how you feel.
    That's the thing. I'd be okay with being friends with him as long as he'd be like my other friends and let me fu***ng breath. The fact he is so clingy and acts like I'm his soulmate or some sh** doesn't help either. Idk how to tell him though.
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    He probably just wants to bum you.
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    (Original post by CleverSquirrel)
    maybe hes gay and fancies you?
    I honestly was starting to think this. But I am not fully convinced. He sometimes vaguely mentions wanting a wife, girlfriend, etc. So I was like ehmm idk. But anyways he irritates me. A few days ago he said his favourite part of the day is talking to me. Like wtf, what did I do for him to say sh** like this?? I just minded my own bussiness and he all the sudden started following me everywhere.
 
 
 
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