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    I'm 20 years old, male, never had a girlfriend, kiss, held hands or even a hug. I hate myself and in bad depression. Socialising is really tough for me.

    I don't know what to do. Even if I do get a girlfriend, unless she is a virgin, I can't settle with her yet unless I sleep with more girls. I can't afford a prostitute. This depression is affecting my studies and health.

    Everytime I attempt speaking to a girl, they are either not interested or when I get their number or Facebook, they don't reply back. I feel angry and sad all the time.

    you need a wingman
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    Do you have any friends? Like 'angrypoliceman' said, you do need a wingman who is more experienced than you. Start slow by getting your first hug, and then gradually build upwards and upwards. You also need to lose this low self-esteem as it is not attractive to girls despite what you may think. Happiness shouldn't revolve around what you have or haven't done with girls.
    • #2

    same.... but i'm a female and like... over 30 (i wish i was lying)
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