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    I've just recently discovered that my only 'real friend' was fake i'm glad she left me anyway bc she was making me unhappy but now i dont really have any friends and no-one asks me what the matter is and i've become completely isolated from everyone. The thing is i really reallly want attention bc no-one notices me anymore, but i dont want people to judge me and call me an attention seeker. i've never been able to make friends just like that, its just always been really hard for me
    Can anyone else relate or is it just me?
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    i feel you, i've got to know a fair number of fake friends

    buts its okay, we can be besties
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    step 1 : say hi to person in your class/course

    step 2 : stalk them till you find something you have in common

    step 3 : talk to them about that common thing

    step 4 : let it click from there
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    No 😐 I've never had fake friends because I pick my friends carefully but I have lost friends only because of distance. So now I don't really care about making friends or enemies. I just want mutual respect from neighbours, co-workers, course-mates, and men.

    Anyway you sound like a six former and trust me there's more to life hun.
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    Yes, i can relate 100%
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    (Original post by Ray_Shadows)
    step 1 : say hi to person in your class/course

    step 2 : stalk them till you find something you have in common

    step 3 : talk to them about that common thing

    step 4 : let it click from there
    Been there done that its not that easy
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    QUOTE=Salt Queen;74062344]No 😐 I've never had fake friends because I pick my friends carefully but I have lost friends only because of distance. So now I don't really care about making friends or enemies. I just want mutual respect from neighbours, co-workers, course-mates, and men.

    Anyway you sound like a six former and trust me there's more to life hun.[/QUOTE]
    Wow you're psychic how did you know I was a sixth former
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    (Original post by Salt Queen)
    No 😐 I've never had fake friends because I pick my friends carefully but I have lost friends only because of distance. So now I don't really care about making friends or enemies. I just want mutual respect from neighbours, co-workers, course-mates, and men.

    Anyway you sound like a six former and trust me there's more to life hun.
    wOw you are psychic how did you know I'm a sixth former
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    wOw you are psychic how did you know I'm a sixth former
    I had the same concerns when I was at school 😌 now that I'm older I don't care about those things so much

    Also TSR has a lot of 6th formers :teehee:
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    i understand what you're going through and it is definately a good thing that she left as it would be a toxic friendship anyways. wanting attention is normal but you should just go with the flow and see where life takes you. just because youre alone now, does not mean you will be alone forever good things come to those who wait
 
 
 
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