So I have struggled with this one for some time I struggle to relate to people am kind of lonely and desperate to get a girlfriend.
However certain advice is uncomfortable basically I have an anxiety disorder I dont do well socially and mess up all the time so I over think everything and this makes me more anxious.
things like if they text do you text back right away or wait?
see I know the common advice is not to seem to eager or easy and not to reply right away and wait to text them but then I am anxious all the time over analyzing it should i text back or not.
I want to get a girl where I can text back whenever I feel like it. rather then having to wait a certain period of time and be anxious
is it better to do what i want or better to do what works?
this relates to a number of things in relationships the text back is just one small example. Eg girls like a guy that takes the lead but I am more comfortable with the girl taking the lead should I be someone else if it works?
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