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is it better to play the game or is it better to be how I want to be? watch

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    So I have struggled with this one for some time I struggle to relate to people am kind of lonely and desperate to get a girlfriend.

    However certain advice is uncomfortable basically I have an anxiety disorder I dont do well socially and mess up all the time so I over think everything and this makes me more anxious.
    things like if they text do you text back right away or wait?
    see I know the common advice is not to seem to eager or easy and not to reply right away and wait to text them but then I am anxious all the time over analyzing it should i text back or not.
    I want to get a girl where I can text back whenever I feel like it. rather then having to wait a certain period of time and be anxious
    is it better to do what i want or better to do what works?

    this relates to a number of things in relationships the text back is just one small example. Eg girls like a guy that takes the lead but I am more comfortable with the girl taking the lead should I be someone else if it works?

    who cares if you seem eager? who cares if etc etc? that's the attitude i'd recommend- works for me
    that is all
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