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    Girl/guy says your hot/attractive/etc. but not to your face, you find out through someone else.. not really knowing them, what would you do if you could see something possibly happening? Should you wait for them to make a move or not...
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    Either you make a move or you make a chance for them to make a move, simples.
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    Get to know them better first, then make a move. It’s a bit awkward if you make a move coming out of nowhere
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    Only problem is if you leave it for them to make a move, it might never happen.

    Reach out to them via FB, twitter etc and just drop them a message; worse they can say is no.
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    for sure make the first move. what's the worse that can happen? you don't even know if what was said is true and there's only one way to find out. maybe don't jump straight in the deep end, but ask them out or start a conversation first and see where it goes
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    Text them become more familiar with them this might make them ask you out even more if you show your willing 😀 If you get bored of waiting ask them
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    Make the first move
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    Make the move! There could be any number of reasons they aren't making the move.
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    Thank you, thank youuu!!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thank you, thank youuu!!
    Hahah. Cool. Lemme know how it turned out. You rock, girl/guy/unspecified gendered person.
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    go for it! YOLO it.
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    I would definitely just go for it... what have you got to lose?
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    How did it go?
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    Urgh... I haven't done anything about it... keep panicking at the last minute and backing out!
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    How did it go?
    Urghhh... I haven’t done anything about it... I keep thinking I’m gonna go ahead and do it, and then every time I just panic/freak out and think “what if...”.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Girl/guy says your hot/attractive/etc. but not to your face, you find out through someone else.. not really knowing them, what would you do if you could see something possibly happening? Should you wait for them to make a move or not...
    not much. Who ever told me could be talking sh.t lol. I'm not really into gossipping.
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    not much. Who ever told me could be talking sh.t lol. I'm not really into gossipping.
    Um yes they could be chatting **** but at the same time they might not be and only you (well me personally) would know being in that situation...
 
 
 
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