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    Been going out for 7 months, he's 20, i'm 21.

    Revently he keeps flaking on plans, so i told him not to, i told him i feel like an afterthought etc, which is what i do think he loves his friends.

    He said it was too expensive to come visit me at home, when i've driven him and stuff to his house over 6 times.

    we go to uni together, and he said education is no.1 (to which i replied i'm v aware however u don't have to have a girlfriend if u can't make time!)

    he just makes me feel like **** and says i shouldn't have a go at him basically

    he also said i should get used to having arguments as part of a relationship

    i dunno what to do
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    (Original post by lousmithy)
    he also said i should get used to having arguments as part of a relationship
    lol @ his low expectations of relationships. Pretty low standard to aim for.

    His excuses are pretty valid though.
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    (Original post by lousmithy)
    Been going out for 7 months, he's 20, i'm 21.

    Revently he keeps flaking on plans, so i told him not to, i told him i feel like an afterthought etc, which is what i do think he loves his friends.

    He said it was too expensive to come visit me at home, when i've driven him and stuff to his house over 6 times.

    we go to uni together, and he said education is no.1 (to which i replied i'm v aware however u don't have to have a girlfriend if u can't make time!)

    he just makes me feel like **** and says i shouldn't have a go at him basically

    he also said i should get used to having arguments as part of a relationship

    i dunno what to do


    it's been over for a very long time, just look at the topic titles you've created to discuss this guy
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    (Original post by ANM775)
    it's been over for a very long time, just look at the topic titles you've created to discuss this guy
    lol I just checked.

    RIP relationship that never existed in the first place.
 
 
 
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