I want to start finding love again but i'm too socially awkward and i get really nervous and kinda freeze :/
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how to be more confident to ask out a girl? watch
- Thread Starter
- 11-10-2017 05:07
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- 11-10-2017 09:39
- 11-10-2017 10:27
I know that's like giving you the keys to a helicopter and saying 'you can do it' but its just a question of practice. Try to talk to girls at uni/work/school/clubs/whatever and get more confident around them, you might make some friends out of it and it'll help you be calmer talking to them in general.
Only control what you can control. Is it your fault she might not like a comment you make? No. Is it your fault she's in a bad mood? No. Is it your fault she's in a rush? No. Just be yourself, awareness of circumstance is useful but don't 'what if' as in 'should I say that because yesterday her brother mentioned something like it' because it mean you'll end up either backpedaling constantly or sounding totally bland. Same with asking her out, if she's like <21 you can even do it by text so she isn't pressured and has thinking time. At the end of the day you have to just close your eyes and ask - worst is she says no and you don't waste time. Best case is she says yes. This is quite instructional on the point I'm making https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNJgk0eC3RM
- 11-10-2017 10:30
Grills don't always need to be asked. Some are willing to be taken. I found one in my neighbours backyard the other day and figured he didnt need it. My favourite grill is called George Foreman.
- 11-10-2017 12:06
Okay since i have a marketing background, i'll teach you a few things. Remember the hardest thing you're going to face is rejection, if you get a no, so what? There's lots of yes' out there.
1) Introduction - Smile.Eye Contact.Xcitement.Your Personality (Sexy factors = Flirt with them...)
2) Short Story - Keep it short and simple - When you're meeting someone new, you don't want to overwhelm them.
3) Presentation - Ask them out, if not there and then maybe in the future.
4) Close - Whatever happens behind closed doors, stays behind closed doors
5) Rehash - Rinse & repeat....
- 11-10-2017 12:23
I can understand that ure not comfortable talking face to face so try online.
If u find someone cute find their Fb or IG
Then dm them and try to get to know them. There r guys and girls who prefer to talk online so u can try ur luck there .