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    Ladies, what attracts you to a guy, like what things do you look for in a man?
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    It totally depends on ones age, it's different as you get older.

    As a teen you go totally for the physical attraction (nice legs, butt, shoulders, eyes)
    but as you grow you realise how superficial that is and eventually go for for the following:

    DOES HE MAKE YOU LAUGH?
    How the guy treats you, does he clearly adore you, and behave that way
    How he speaks about you to others - is he always respectful?
    Is he interesting - can you talk about anything for hours and not get bored?
    Does he enjoy the same things you do?
    Does he want to be with you but not control or smother you?
    Does he look after you when you're not well?
    Is he there when you need him or has he run for the hills as soon as anything needs to be done?

    Then it's things like will he be a good father, what is his family life like and so on.
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    don't think it depends on age, some people are just less mature than others but I'd say the top 2 things are being funny and being kind
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    It's more about growing hormones. Teenagers have raging hormones so go for the physical.
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    In my experience it doesn't depend on your age^^

    I'm a teenager and I'm rarely attracted to someone purely because of their looks. Generally I'm attracted to someone if they're funny, intelligent, caring, kind, confident, ambitious, loving etc. Someone who is like a best friend and who I can feel completely myself with. Someone I can trust. Looks aren't that important to me (but if they're good-looking I won't complain )
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    nice looks, nice body, good head of hair, height really makes a difference, confidence and then how you treat people
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    I find guys with lots of money attractive lmao #allaboutthatgolddiggerlife
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    (Original post by Purdy7)
    It totally depends on ones age, it's different as you get older.

    As a teen you go totally for the physical attraction (nice legs, butt, shoulders, eyes)
    but as you grow you realise how superficial that is and eventually go for for the following:

    DOES HE MAKE YOU LAUGH?
    How the guy treats you, does he clearly adore you, and behave that way
    How he speaks about you to others - is he always respectful?
    Is he interesting - can you talk about anything for hours and not get bored?
    Does he enjoy the same things you do?
    Does he want to be with you but not control or smother you?
    Does he look after you when you're not well?
    Is he there when you need him or has he run for the hills as soon as anything needs to be done?

    Then it's things like will he be a good father, what is his family life like and so on.
    Basically this
 
 
 
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