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    I have a really big crush on someone in my class at college, it has been for about four weeks. I haven’t really had a proper conversation with them yet but I know quite a bit about them (as you typically do with your crush😂).
    What I want to know is how can I act more normal around them? I always tell myself that when I see them it will be fine and I’ll be all calm and good. But as soon as they walk into the classroom my butterflies immediately start, I get so nervous around them, and I don’t know why. The butterflies and nerves make it impossible for me to talk to them, and even if I try my voice stutters and trembles. It’s so hard. I would love to put up a conversation with them but I can’t without feeling the way I feel and it makes it so hard to..
    What could I do to make it a bit better?
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    Pop some bennies. Or at least be like me, I'm on Kratom powder and/or Phenibut 24/7. Girls don't scare me no more
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    Speak to him and get to know him, you're thoughts people can change when you actually speak to them
    To speak to him just like ask him for the date or for a spare pen or for the answer, start off small and then you'll gain more confidence
 
 
 
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